Nothing Is Better to Moan than Mommy: A Conversation with Arabelle Raphael

Arabelle Raphael and I get together to talk about cuckolding, mommy dommes, twincest, femdom porn, and our favorite ways to dominate men. 

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Hello, I am Mistress Blunt. I’m a professional dominatrix based out of New York City, and today, I’m here with Arabelle. I would love if you could introduce yourself, Arabelle.

Arabelle Raphael: Thank you. I’m Arabelle Raphael. I’m a pornographer and all-around sex worker (laughs) based out of the Pacific Northwest. I’ve been doing this for 11 years.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, you have (laughing).

Arabelle Raphael: Maybe.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: That’s a lot!

Arabelle Raphael: It’s long enough (laughing).

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think other than the fact that I always have huge crushes on people who look like me or have curly hair–

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, me too (both laughing)!

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Maybe twincest is the place to start the conversation.

Arabelle Raphael: Oh, that’s a thing for sure for me.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Okay, okay, cool. We got into it real quick.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, that wasn’t hard (both laughing). I mean, look at my ex-girlfriend. And we really didn’t look alike, but it was enough, you know (laughs)? It’s like long, dark hair, big titties, fat ass and  tattoos. I’m like–

Mistress Danielle Blunt: You’re like, “You look great.”

Arabelle Raphael: “You look so good.” (both laughing) I know. I’m like, what’s wrong with me? But it’s also what my fans like.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Really?

Arabelle Raphael: It’s interesting. Yeah, so like, people do not care all that much about my girl-girl content unless it’s with another thicker, curvy brunette, preferably with tattoos.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: So interesting. I’ve like, tried to like, reverse track, reverse engineer what it is for me, and I’ve traced mine back to Jew camp and being very persuasive in my bunk. (both laughing)

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: As a younger person. It was just like, oh, I was always around people who looked like me and having these weird, intimate moments.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, I don’t know what mine is. My first girlfriend in high school was like, but we didn’t look alike. She was Jewish and brunette, but she was an Ashkenazi Jew. So it’s not like we’re shared a lot of features anyway. I mean, whatever. But you know, she had light, light brown hair. Yeah, but a lot of Jews too, actually. A lot of Jewish girls, lots of Jewish girls. Mostly Jewish girls.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I had like, I once was looking at all of my ex-girlfriends, and they all looked very similar to me (laughs). And I was just like, “Man, I have a type, and that type is me.” It’s so embarrassing (laughs).

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, I know, yeah, no. I’m like, “I don’t think I’m that into myself.” I’m pretty sure I have enough self-loathing in here to not. Like, how is this a thing?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: How can we be self-loathing?

Arabelle Raphael: Secretly, we love ourselves.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: That’s like, our deepest, dark secret.

Arabelle Raphael: Deep down, we think we’re the shit. We just don’t know. (laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: We’re just not evolved enough to get past it.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, we’ll get there someday.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s so funny. My best friend in college looked a lot like me, and men would always hit on us asking if we were sisters. And we would every time just be like, “Yes,” and start making out. And one person, like, I once left my friend to go do something else, and she was like, hooking up with this guy who we told we’re sisters, and she’s like, “This is my uncle,” and she had gotten really into it. And this is one of my friends who identified as more vanilla for a long time, but was always being roped into doing kinky shit with me. (laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Obviously, (both laughing) she’s not that vanilla.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think it was at my last birthday party that she asked me to whip some people, and she was one of them. And her hands are on the wall, her ass is out, and she looked back at me and she’s like, “I don’t think I’m vanilla.” (Danielle laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Nah. (both laughing) So cute.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: It was very cute. But okay, so now that we’ve gotten the important things. (Danielle laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Twincest, yes.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Twincest, yes, into it, I’m curious about some of the more like, femdom, dominatrix-y part of your career in porn, maybe starting with what’s been your favorite femdom scene that you’ve shot or your favorite thing to shoot?

Arabelle Raphael: My favorite thing to shoot, it’s always gonna be cuck stuff. I love cucking. (Arabelle laughs) I love cucking, and it’s a kink that I have a lot of, I don’t know, that can be complicated in ways that I don’t love. But it is like, my favorite thing. And I’ve been able to kind of figure out how to maneuver through it in a way that feels good to me, since a lot of cuck stuff can also be tied in with a lot of racial fetish stuff, and I personally don’t do it. For a minute, I thought that was gonna crush my cuck kink, and it really doesn’t. ( laughs) Like, it’s already really not hard at all. And so yeah, yeah, I love cucking. I like teasing, I like findom. I think the favorite femdom scene I’ve ever shot, this one’s kinda hard, but I did shoot, it might be my cuck scene for Divine Bitches? I think so, I think so.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel like findom and cucking go so well together.

Arabelle Raphael: They really can.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: They’re just holding hands, like, we need a job (laughs).

Arabelle Raphael: Right? Yeah, no, they can go really well together, and I just really enjoy it. It took me a long time. I always knew I was a switch, and I mostly, as I get older, I lean more and more into domme. I’m more of a top. But yeah, for a while, it took me a second to like, be able to figure out who I was as a domme, you know? I don’t know, it finally naturally fell into place. For a while, I was trying stuff out that wasn’t me, and it didn’t work, and I was just like, “Oh, I’m not a domme,” but I’m like, “I know I’m a domme.”  In my essence is: I am an alpha. I was like, “I know it is.” I don’t even know how I got into this specific–I think maybe, I think it was just through shooting porn and just getting hired for it, actually, and then delving more into that and then realizing, I was like, “Oh, I’m really good at this, “and I really like this.”

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Totally. Yeah, I think I definitely tried on some domme personas that were like, not necessarily authentic and was just sort of like, playing with other people’s fantasies or what I saw was out there. I definitely think in my earlier career, I was trying findom things that were more along the lines of like, “Fuck you, pay me,” and now it’s much more like, “This financial contract is part of our long-term D/s dynamic, and if you want to truly surrender power to me, that involves surrendering your finances, so lemme meet your financial counselor.”  So it has a much more integrated approach into the dynamic that really works for me in findom dynamics. But I’m also super into cuckolding, and my girlfriend is actually my cuckold bitch ( laughs).

Arabelle Raphael: Fun! That’s really fun.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Which is really fun, and she’s also really into findom. And I never had played with that with a woman before, which was really interesting.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, I’ve never, nuh-uh. Like, have I ever? I’ve cucked women, but I’ve never done findom with a woman, ever.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, I was like, “You go to the financial counselor. Make sure you have your fuck you fund, and then tell me what I can play with.” ( laughs) But yeah, I’m trying to figure out how to articulate what is so hot about cuckolding, and I think it’s like, it plays with power in a really interesting way. And I also don’t do racialized cuckolding or racial fetishization or raceplay at all in my practice. But I think there’s something about like, teasing the distance, and I think a lot about kink, right, it’s like latex as a barrier or physical bondage and rope bondage as a restraint, and watching someone else get to fuck you and take pleasure with you in a way that they’ll never have access to I think is such a potent way of playing with that distance, and it’s so hot.

Arabelle Raphael: Oh, yeah. I mean, it’s all the tease, the tease and denial, which is so great. And yeah, so much of BDSM in general is that, right, in whatever way, with latex, rope, whatever. The tease is what works for me so well, and showing exactly what others get to do and that person doesn’t get to. I don’t know, yeah it’s super fun. I really enjoy it. (laughs) I couldn’t tell you why. I’m like, why do I enjoy it so much?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Do you enjoy it?

Arabelle Raphael: I mostly prefer mean girl. I’m not super, I like some corporal punishment, but that’s not really my forte, and in general, I’m not a super, you know, there’s more, scary doms, not really my jam. I’m definitely more like, I used to identify as, a little girl on the playground. I feel less that way now, ’cause I feel like I’ve gotten a little older. (both laughing) But it’s the similar sentiments of just like, being mean and flirting at the same time and like, playing around with someone. But I don’t know, I’m so bad at talking about this. (both laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: There’s like a game of cat-and-mouse, it sounds like.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, yeah, yeah, very much so. I like to play. I like to play. I don’t know, I have cats. (both laughing) I watch them go all day, so. (laughs)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love that. It’s funny, I’m a dog person and very much, I have a very playful side, but can be much more into the intense D/s training, and I actually got a puppy two years ago who needed, he is a mix of poodle and border collie and Australian shepherd, and I did not know what I was getting into when I adopted him. He needed such intense training, and I worked with this dog trainer. She was like, “Why are you so good at this?” (laughs) And I’d worked, and I’m like, I feel like I learned so much about being a domme through dog training. ( laughs) Now I like, use some of my dog training tools when I’m playing with people. ( laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: That’s so good, that’s so good. (laughs) I love that.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think cats are sadistic too, though.

Arabelle Raphael: Hmm?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Cats like to play with things.

Arabelle Raphael: Oh yeah, no, there’s definitely sadism. It’s just a specific type, you know? (laughs) I was around a lot of like, just very I guess serious doms when I first started, like the people that I was around, and I tried to emulate that,and I was not that, you know? That’s just not how I flow, and I guess I realized, I just really like to play as mean. (both laughing) But it’s very playful. (laughs)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I like that, that’s fun. I feel like even when I’m doing higher protocol things, I’m never serious, which I feel like I don’t see a ton of.

Arabelle Raphael: There’s not a lot of that, at least on camera.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, and I think that’s an interesting thing too, thinking about the difference between femdom porn and what professional dominatrices are advertising. I think that’s really interesting, especially with the like, getting over the whole, oh, well, doms aren’t penetrating.

Arabelle Raphael: I was about to say.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: During sex. ( laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, well, it’s interesting to see that there’s definitely a new like, I mean, I think there were always femdoms that were doing in-person stuff that were also doing that. They were just keeping it on the DL. It’s interesting to see the new hybrid dom that actively does talk about that stuff, because, yeah, yeah, porn, there is usually. You know, there’s some sites, but if you’re talking that are strictly like, just BDSM with no sex intertwined, but yeah, most porn, someone’s getting fucked.  (laughing) and yeah, your dom might use your dick. I think porn actually made the in-person kind of dom thing, it kind of pushed that, or created that, I don’t know.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: The, “I don’t do that,” or the, “I now do do that”?

Arabelle Raphael: I do do that, yeah. I wonder, because I do feel like BDSM porn mainstreamed as much as it can, you know? But I think, well, you can take a site like Kink. It’s a pretty big site for a BDSM site. Like, other BDSM sites never got that big. I could think of like, Intersex, intersex, no, wait, that’s something else. InnerSex, is that the name now? I can’t remember. I shot for them too, and I can’t. ( laughs) I can’t even remember who else was around. There’s been a lot of smaller companies, and now I feel like the fix in brand is making their own BDSM content. But yeah, so in the last couple years, that kind of porn and femdom porn with more of that stuff has gotten bigger and bigger, and so I wonder if that’s why we’re seeing more and more folks advertising like that, I don’t know.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, it’s so interesting, because I definitely moved in that direction, and I came out of an old guard leather house which trained me to be a great dom, but didn’t teach me anything about being a professional dominatrix.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, and two different things, right?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, two very different things. And I think because there was a more, it was personal dynamics, I trained as a submissive, earned leathers, and there was lots of sex in the penetrative way. I think just licking a boot can be sex too, so I try not to.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, I know, I know, that’s why I’m saying like, separating them is kinda weird to me in general.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, but there is something about that separation. But like, sex of a penetrative matter where like, I’m getting fucked, and someone’s getting fucked with something inside of someone in some hole, maybe we’re making a new hole with a needle, I don’t know, but had always been a part of what I was into about BDSM, and that like, the tease and the denial and the pushing of what someone can take, how many times someone can edge for you or how long someone’s been in chastity for, but when I started working, none of my peers were doing anything that involved their genitalia that they were talking about in any way, so I was like, “Oh, cool, this is something kind of different.” It wasn’t until I was like, “Wait, I love using people like human dildos.” It was like, what I find one of the most interesting parts I like about kink, and I was like, “Why am I not, why am I not doing that?” And then I started shooting more porn. But it was definitely something that I thought about. It was like, “Oh, what will my dom peers think?” And like of course, it was nothing. (Danielle laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Well, I mean, but there is. I feel like there is, I mean, at least I see it on Twitter. There’s definitely, and maybe less so now, but there used to be like, a huge pushback. And I used to live with a pro dom, and I remember the first time when I moved in, she made it very clear to me, she was like, “I don’t use my genitals for work.” I’m like, “Okay, girl, good for you. I don’t care.” (laughs) You know? So that stuff definitely is there, but I don’t know. To me, a dom does whatever the fuck they want.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Right?

Arabelle Raphael: That’s the whole point. I mean, I could see a dom getting spit-roasted and smacked, but if you’re calling the shots, you’re still the one in charge. And I think that’s where I got confused, where I’m really not a submissive; it’s just that I can bottom, and I can enjoy bottoming. But there’s a difference between being a submissive and bottoming even, you know?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel similarly, ’cause I’m like, a heavy sadomasochist. I can appreciate pain on both sides of an implement, but I’ll say, I need a good bottoming submissive scene like, once a year to keep me humble and well-rounded and just like, stasis in my mind in my body. I’ve been missing it in the pandemic. But like, with my exes, the way that we would fuck, I feel like there’s this misconception that specific activities are top or bottom or submissive or dominant, and anything can be done in any way, because a dom does whatever the fuck they want. And so if I train my submissive to be a human fuck machine who’s like, choking me and not allowed to cum until I tell him he can, like, it doesn’t matter what it looks like if the audio’s off.

Arabelle Raphael: I feel this in a big way, because blowjobs are seen as the most, like, it’s either degrading or submissive and whatever, and I’m like, I’m literally putting your sex organ in my mouth. Like, I control your pleasure. I control your pain. I can control your orgasm. I cannot think of a more submissive act than putting your fucking dick in somebody’s mouth, right? And so, and I’ll switch a little bit, and I do some facefucking stuff, but most of my blowjobs are very much, that I shoot, are very much me in control, and I find that to be a top activity, even though sometimes, depending on how it’s done, but a lot of people don’t view it as that. It’s purely looked at as submissive.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I just remembered, my first boyfriend, in the beginning of our relationship, wouldn’t let me suck his dick, because he thought it was degrading to women. (Arabelle laughs loudly) I remember later in the relationship holding him down and like, squeezing his dick and looking him in the eye and being like, “Do I look degraded to you, motherfucker?”, and giving him an amazing blowjob. But I was like, it had never occurred to me that it was submissive or degrading, ’cause it’s like, you’re in total control of someone’s pleasure, and you can make it go as long or as quick as you want, and incorporate elements of pain into it if you want, bring them right to the edge and then slow down. So I was like, “What the fuck are you talking about, you idiot?” (laughs) “You know nothing.”

Arabelle Raphael: He read a lot of second wave feminism. (both laughing) Read some Andrea Dworkin and then was like, “We can’t have sex, I’m sorry.” (both laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: One blowjob changed him.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, yeah, right. ( laughs) Yeah, no, it’s weird that there are these rules that get made, and I’m just like, ( laughs) “This is about me doing whatever I want,” (laughs) at least to me.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: That’s definitely what I think, and I feel like I’ve been seeing more and more of that in pro doms, and also in some of the porn that I watch, not that I watch a ton of porn. I feel like it’s just market research.

Arabelle Raphael: Oh, yeah.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: And I think this is something that you’ve talked about before.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, I don’t watch pornography. The fantasy is ruined. I either know the people, or I’m thinking of it from a technical aspect, or I’m being weird and comparing myself. None of those are hot. ( laughs) Like, none of those scenarios are sexy for me. There’s one, funny, there’s one mommy dom that once in a blue moon, I’ll rub it out to. Once in a blue moon. But really, no, no, cartoons only, because I know how it’s made. I don’t know, yeah. It’s just like, I’ve been doing it for 11 years. No. ( laughs)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: This mommy dom on Twitter who was a doppelganger of my old therapist who also used to, former sex worker. I was pretty sure it wasn’t her. They had very different accents, so it would have been a very impressive act. But I was just like, “Wow.” (Danielle laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Now, did you jerk off to her? (Danielle laughs)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Had a field day. I just felt very confused.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, fair, fair.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: But like, aroused and confused.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, yeah. I had a therapist that looked like, did you ever see I Love Dick?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I did, yeah.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, you know the actress in there? She looked exactly like that actress, and she does a bunch of like, sexy mom movies now, and I’m just always like, oh, just like, turned on, and I feel weird, all at the same time. (both laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: So funny. I didn’t find her until after I had stopped seeing her as a therapist, so I was like, again, I don’t even know how I would bring this up. But yeah, the mommy dom, a classic.

Arabelle Raphael: Oh yeah, love mommy dom. That’s something I really pushed back on for the longest time, mostly because I was getting called mommy at like, 25, and I was like, “Fuck you!” Yeah, yeah, exactly. And in the last couple years, I’ve really embraced mommy, and I’m really loving it. Love it.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel like I can move between mommy and daddy energy. The last two or three years, I’ve been hard mommy, and it’s felt so good, and I just feel like I love the energy exchange in mommy scenes. It’s so, so, so sweet.

Arabelle Raphael: It is, it is. I also can switch, but I’m also feeling the mommy way more. I used to go by daddy, and yeah, once in a while, someone will call me daddy, and I’ll be like, okay, but like, I’m definitely, yeah, I don’t know, I hit, I don’t know if it just came with my 30s, but I’m just like, “Mommy, mommy’s here.”

Mistress Danielle Blunt: What better thing is there to moan, than mommy? (laughs) Mommy is like, literally made to be moaned. Yeah, it’s interesting, because I feel like in pro dom scenes, I’m not super into adult baby scenes, which were most of the session requests that I was getting. Now I’m getting a lot more from littles and sexting with like, even if there’s not an ageplay dynamic, where I’m just still mommy, and it’s like a very nurturing, dominant role who just wants you to be your best version of yourself and like, pleasure mommy and do mommy’s bidding and give mommy everything that she wants like a good little boy or girl.

Arabelle Raphael: No, that’s my jam too. I don’t like the adult babies either. I think it’s fine, but it’s not my jam, you know what I mean? So, there are other wonderful doms that will do it right. I’m just not gonna be that person for you. Yeah, I’m not into it, and so I’ve never been able to properly provide that. But ageplay can be in it, or it doesn’t even come into it, but in general, and I would just get so much of it, and I don’t know, I really like it. It feels more natural.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel like people don’t often realize, I feel like so much of this conversation is like, kink can be whatever you want it to be, based on what you want. But with mommy play, I think I was having a conversation with someone who was feeling really conflicted about it, and I was like, it doesn’t have to be about ageplay if that’s not your thing. You can just call your partner mommy and get off on the maternal archetype. I actually did a really fun conversation with Jessie Sage, who is both a mother in a biological sense and a mommy in like, a kinky/sex worker/porn sense, and we were talking about how nice it is when someone gives you a chance to consent to being mommified instead of just having men put you in that maternal, caregiving, emotional labor position. For me, there’s been something really cathartic about intentionally entering into those dynamics, rather than having it thrust on me by society.

Arabelle Raphael: Definitely, definitely. I mean, I feel that about like, all sex work, (laughs) really.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: But yeah, that’s a fair point.

Arabelle Raphael: I was sexualized, you know, this is not hot, but whatever, like, fairly young, and then my entire life, by the world, and for me, it definitely felt at some point like I was just taking the reins of that and being like, “Okay, well, this is gonna happen to me no matter what.” And I mean, obviously there were other factors in why I got into sex work, but this definitely is a part of it. It’s not the reason why, but I can see how it’s connected, if that makes sense. But yeah, it’s seizing the means of production, (both laughing) you know?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I was thinking about that. I was scrolling through your tweets earlier.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, well, I’ve been thinking about that a lot, ’cause I’m super into entheogenic therapy, and so I’ve been doing a lot of just kind of, I don’t know, I’ve spent the last year digging into my psyche, right? So I’m seeing a lot of like, you know, I’m just like, putting the puzzles a little together, right? And it’s definitely a thing, and like, I think I definitely was like, oh yeah, this was a way of, and I’m not saying it in the way of sex work is empowering, because I’m like, I don’t love that narrative necessarily, but there is something definitely awesome about being like, “Okay, well this is a thing that happens no matter what. Now I can control that and make bank off that and use it to my benefit.”

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Totally. I feel like I haven’t thought of it quite like that, although it totally resonates with me, but there is something for me about just like, and maybe it is the same thing, of just like, learning about sex really young and then understanding how power is then related to sex and then how I could wield it, either like a weapon, like a kinky sense of like, teasing, or as a means of making money was really interesting, and like, finding out where money then fits into that was really interesting for me.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, yeah, no. I think, I mean, in the society that we have set up ( laughs) or we have set up, but that sex is a form, you know, is a tool. But yeah, and it can be a very powerful tool.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, to extract maximum. (Danielle laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, I didn’t wanna go to college. (both laughing) But I wanted to make more than my doctor sister, so I figured it out. ( laughs)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love that.

Arabelle Raphael: I’m terrible. (both laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I did go to college, and when my dad found out I was doing sex work, he was like, “You went to art school. This is a great business decision for you!” (both laughing)

Arabelle Raphael: That’s good.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Like, thanks.

Arabelle Raphael: Rude. (both laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, well, I feel like we’ve covered so much in this, but I have one last question for you. How has the pandemic changed, or has it, your sexual fantasies, and what have you been thinking about and excited for in whatever the future looks like when people can see each other more safely?

Arabelle Raphael: Hmm. For me, so, I’ve been mostly locked up in the house with like, a cis man for the last year, so just honestly, anyone that’s not that would be kinda fun to play with. I would really, specifically, I wanna beat up some femmes. That’s what I wanna do. (laughs) That’s what I’ve been thinking about. Yeah, I want to be mean to some pretty femmes. And I don’t know if that’s ever changed. It’s just moreso, maybe. ( laughs)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’ve been locked up with a bunch of queer folks, or like, the people who have been in my pod are a really cute nonbinary person, Jackie Indigo, who I played with a bunch, which has been really fun, and then my girlfriend, who’s a cis woman, and I have never fantasized about torturing a cock so much. (laughs) Usually, I feel like very opposite, opposite extremes. I’ve also been super into latex, which I have an allergy to.

Arabelle Raphael: Oh.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: But I just wanna see other people in it. But like, I wanna see someone in head-to-toe latex with like, a funnel just drinking my spit and fluids, ’cause that’s been so taboo, and just like, my toe on their cock, and just like, read a book. (laughs) That’s where I’ve been focusing on. But yeah, I realized, I was like, I haven’t fucked a cis ma in like, a year and a half which hasn’t happened, and I didn’t know that I would miss so much. (both laughing)

Arabelle Raphael: Fair. Yeah, when you get what you have access to taken away, so much access to, you’re like, “Oh, this is no longer abundant. Now I want it.” (both laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Exactly! ( laughs)

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, I always like to say that dick is abundant. I’m like, “Meh.” (laughs loudly)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Abundant and low-value is the meme.

Arabelle Raphael: But I’m also like, what?

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Dick is abundant and low-value.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, no, it is, it is, very much so. It’s weird, ’cause I still really like it, but like, I don’t know. It takes a lot to impress me. (both laughing) But yeah, okay, well, no, wait, no, never mind. (both laughing) I’ll ask you after. (both laughing)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Okay, well, that sounds like the perfect time to end.

Arabelle Raphael: I for real have a question for you. They don’t get to hear it.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: Thank you so much for chatting with me.

Arabelle Raphael: Yeah, of course.

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I look forward, we’ve never met in person, so I’m excited for that, post-pandemic. I feel like I know you just from like, pure social relationship. (both laughing)

Arabelle Raphael: We’ve touched enough of the same people (both laughing) that we’ve been in the same room together.

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