Protocol

I am internationally sought-after for my unique approach to BDSM. If you want to become my submissive, you’ll need to follow my protocol very carefully. Remember, you only get one shot at a first impression:

  • If you are a first time client, I expect you to have read the entirety of my website. My application form is detailed and specific, so be sure to concisely answer all of the questions I ask of you.
  • I only see submissives who are able to articulate why they are interested in seeing me. I am a narcissist, so tell me what about me in particular calls to you? What do you want to explore with me?
  • I will never be available for same day sessions with first time submissives. I require at least 24 hours notice to book a first time session, but a week is preferable.
  • First time sessions will be held in a space of my choosing. I do not do outcall sessions for first time submissives. Currently, my preferred session times are Tuesday afternoons, Wednesday afternoons, and Thursday afternoons.
  • When you show up to your session, I expect you to show up clean, on time, and with tribute (as instructed).
  • Do not adorn yourself with perfume or cologne. I prefer a clean, unadorned canvas. I like to smell your fear… and my arousal.
  • I prefer (but not require at this time) longer engagements as it gives me time to get to know you and your psychological weakness… so I that I can take advantage of them.
  • References are appreciated.
  • Deposits are required.

Remember that this list is the bare minimum of what I expect from you. If you want to make a great first impression, I have some suggestions. You do want to be good for me, don’t you?

My Travel Policy

I am based in New York City and upstate New York, but I travel regularly and offer virtual sessions. I am available to travel to other locations for 4+ hour sessions should the session request, destination and accommodations please me.

My Cancelation Policy

Schedule changes happen and I will always do my best to accommodate any changes that come up, if I am able to.

If you need to cancel a session, please note that I require 48 hours notice and will use your deposit towards a future session.

If you cancel a session or request a change in session with less than 48 hours notice and I am unable to easily accommodate your change, your deposit is nontransferable and nonrefundable.

If you cancel a session with less than 24 hours notice or no show, you are responsible for paying the full tribute.

Note that this is my standard cancelation policy. If I am traveling or on tour, my cancelation policy is even more strict.

If I am already in your city and unable to easily accommodate your requested change, you will be responsible for paying the full tribute.

Important Notes & Limits

I occasionally have space available at slightly reduced rates for submissives whose inquiry strikes me and who may not otherwise be able to afford my standard tribute. These spots are reserved for folks who identify as femme, trans, or nonbinary.

These spots are for students and for community members who do work in social justice. Inquire politely, be sure to highlight our mutual interests, and mention any offer of barter.

I do not engage in any illegal activity. Any request to do so will result in the end of our communication. Please note that I am not a full-service provider, and that I do not entertain toilet training or racial humiliation sessions.