flower mummification

Self-Care in Quarantine

Forced self-care has always been an interest of mine. I’ve often found that for people who identify as masochists, having strict instructions to follow on how to take care of themselves can be helpful in starting to integrate more self care practices into their lives.  A lot can be learned about the self through externalizing …

Mistress Blunt talks about topping from the bottom in bdsm scenes

Topping from the Bottom: Communication and Negotiation in BDSM Scenes

You can watch the full clip where I speak about topping from the bottom here. I’m really excited to dive into the topic of topping from the bottom. First, let’s start with the basics. Sometimes I make the assumption that people know what certain BDSM terms and terminologies mean, and I’m trying really hard not …