Orgasm Control

Orgasm control is an important part of how I train my submissives. I incorporate it into much of my training sessions. An orgasm is a powerful thing. Learning to control it and offer it to your Mistress’ pleasure is life-changing.

Only allowing someone to release when it serves a dominant woman’s pleasure is the essence of femdom. I relish in training you to control your orgasm through tease, denial and edging instruction. I incorporate elements of tantra to tease you to your wit’s end.

If you want release, you’ll have to beg and pray I am feeling merciful.

What is orgasm control?

Orgasm control is an umbrella term that includes several activities, including: edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, forced orgasm, etc. It’s the practice of delaying, denying, ruining or forcing your orgasm, either for your pleasure or your Mistress’ pleasure.

What is edging?

Edging, a key component of orgasm control, is the act of bringing someone (or yourself) to the edge of orgasm and then suddenly stopping them from reaching it. Often, this process of reaching the metaphorical “edge” is repeated several times before eventual climax and release.

What is orgasm denial?

Orgasm denial is bringing someone (or yourself) to the edge of orgasm and then denying release. Orgasm denial can include bondage and chastity devices, and it can be short-term (“not right now”) or long-term (“not for 30 days”).

What is a ruined orgasm?

A ruined orgasm minimizes, or completely eliminates, the pleasure you normally feel from reaching climax. This is achieved by abruptly stopping all stimulation just as climax is reached.

The strength of the orgasm does not match the build up from all of the teasing and edging. Often, there is an ejaculatory response without the other pleasurable feelings associated with an orgasm.

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