Unpacking Power Dynamics as a Financial Dominatrix: How I Approach Findom

Growing up, I didn’t want to be a doctor, a firefighter, or a ballerina. I wanted to marry rich, and divorce well, and I would tell anyone who would listen.  I could imagine nothing I wanted more than access to wealth and security. I knew that proximity to men might bring me proximity to wealth, …

BDSM Stories: Prey for Mommy Domme

I knew I would like the hotel. Mommy had recommended it, so graciously given the circumstances. As I walked through intimate corridors of sumptuous, deep red wallpaper and ornate mahogany, decorated with an endless collection of vintage artwork, I felt like I had been invited to the lodge of a secret society. I also couldn’t …

24/7 D/s Relationship & Findom: I Interview My Woman Finsub (Again)

A couple years ago, I had the opportunity to sit down with my woman financial submissive to chat about our relationship, findom, and total power exchange (TPE). It was a hit on social media. So much so that someone paid me to interview her again. Here’s the long-awaited part two of our interview on financial …

Findomme OnlyFans: Who is the best financial dominatrix on OnlyFans? An unbiased opinion.

Since you’re here—reading this—I know a little something about you: you’re interested in findom. I know you want to explore findom as a form of power exchange. You want to be a powerful woman’s personal ATM, wallet, or paypig. You want to be useful, to serve both a findomme’s whims (like a new pair of …

Femdom Stories: Tapped by Mistress Blunt

During quarantine, one of the ways I’ve been fostering my D/s relationships and keeping in touch with my submissives is having them write me stories about their deepest, darkest desires. I will continue sharing my favorite femdom stories, which have been written for and about me, here on my blog. (You can read through the …