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Inside a 5-Year Female Led Relationship: Findom & Virtual D/s (Duckling Part 2)

What Is a Female Led Relationship? Starting with the Mantra Mistress Danielle Blunt: We are moving into part two of our interview, because we just have so much to talk about. Today we are going to be talking about training, conditioning, Female-Led Relationships (FLR), and what our dynamic looks like in totality. So why don’t …

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24/7 Virtual Submission: An Interview with My Duckling (Part 1)

Mistress Danielle Blunt: I am so excited to have this chat today with my duckling and talk about our virtual, 24/7 D/s dynamic and virtual submission. I have interviewed other submissives of mine, like my woman finsub, but I have yet to do an interview with my duckling. As a Domme who prioritizes long-term D/s …

Mistress Blunt has hundred dollar bills in her stockings and takes more from her submissive

Financial Submission: Why People Give Their Money to Dominant Women

Most explanations of financial domination (findom) and financial submission are written by people who researched it for an afternoon. They reach for the obvious frameworks: addiction, compulsion, low self-esteem. Their conclusions sound clinical while bypassing anything interesting or real. After fifteen years of practice, an academic background in psychology, and first-hand experience with numerous financial …

Mistress Blunt spreads out a cashdrop on sheepskin in front of her stockinged feet

Long-Term Financial Domination: What A Findom Relationship Actually Looks Like

Most of the writing on financial domination online focuses on the beginning. It covers the first tribute, the first task, the rush of that initial send. But what happens to someone who, years after their introduction to financial submission, finds that it has restructured something fundamental about how they move through the world? What about …

Mommy Domme Mistress Blunt dangles high heel

BDSM Stories: The Submissive Scorecard

I arrive promptly at 6:30 p.m. My last few thoughts of my work day dance in my head as she opens the door. Immediately, they melt away and I move to my knees. “What do you have for me?” she inquires, sitting with her legs crossed in front of me, heel dangling from her toes.

Unpacking Power Dynamics as a Financial Dominatrix: How I Approach Findom

Growing up, I didn’t want to be a doctor, a firefighter, or a ballerina. I wanted to marry rich, and divorce well, and I would tell anyone who would listen.  I could imagine nothing I wanted more than access to wealth and security. I knew that proximity to men might bring me proximity to wealth, …

BDSM Stories: Mommy’s Domesticated Little Slut

With the blindfold buckled into place, Mommy has denied me the privilege of seeing her luxuriate just a few dozen feet away, past the ornate metal grill separating the bathroom from the rest of the sumptuous hotel room. I imagine the little waves lapping at her perfect body, nipples floating just above the surface. Mommy’s …

BDSM Stories: Bondage, Findom & Public Play with Mommy

My steps slow as we approach the garage where I parked. Mistress Blunt turns back to face me, illuminated by a solitary street lamp. She is a vision straight out of a movie, voluptuous in a scarlet red dress, completely at ease in her leather jacket, layered belts, and boots. It is a cool, wet …