Pool Boy with @willhavocxxx

Last month I spent a glorious week with Madeline Marlowe and Will Havoc in Las Vegas. We filmed some super sexy femdom content while I was out there. Creating with these two was certainly a treat. Check out my clip store for the first part of my 3 part pool boy clip with Will! Our chemistry is unparalleled. Stay tuned for more Femdom clips from Mistress Blunt!

High Protocol D/s

As a classically trained dominatrix, there is nothing that I enjoy more than high protocol D/s (Dominance/submission) training. Training a submissive up to my standards creates the building blocks to develop a beautiful and mutually beneficial relationship. A relationship where you are able to serve me to my standards. A relationship where you prioritize my pleasure. A relationship where your body becomes a vehicle for service.

Having a harem of well trained submissives in NYC and Brooklyn brings me so much pleasure. Do you think you have what it takes to join the ranks of my harem?

Mistress + boy Staycation in NYC!

Early last month, my darling submissive rented us a room at one of my favorite boutique hotels, for a kinky staycation. He knows that I adore staying in well designed hotels with abundant natural light in New York City and he knows that a happy Mistress means a happy slave. My favorite part of our stay was looking at the Brooklyn Bridge and the NYC skyline with a glass of earthy red in my hand while the sun set and my boots rested on my slut’s back. I also used him as a human tripod and we had an impromptu photoshoot! In the morning I ordered breakfast in bed and had my morning coffee before I let him out of the body bag that I graciously allowed him to sleep in at the foot of my bed.

Miss Victoria Robinson even graced us with her presence for a lunchtime session to round out the trip. Sometimes you don’t even need to leave your darling city for a sweet reboot. Thanks, slave. Until next time.

Professional Domination, Personal Subs and Fulfilling Kinky Relationships.

I get a lot of requests from individuals looking to serve me as a personal submissive. This is not something that I offer to individuals whom I do not know. Serving me in a more personal capacity requires proving your devotion and your dedication. Personal service is a privilege that is earned, and one that is sustained through regular and devoted service, sessions and tribute.

My relationships with submissives are always loving, compassionate and if you serve me regularly, they are often deeply personal for me. The exchange of money for my presence and my attention is a crucial boundary in establishing D/s relationships for me. I am privileged in that I am able to be selective enough to only see submissives whose energy I enjoy toying with. I have a harem of a few devoted submissives and devotees, and that is how I like it. The exchange of money provides me the space to help others explore intensity and vulnerability and to take care of myself so I am able to hold space and guide and train submissives in the capacity that I desire. I am grateful to and humbled by the devoted individuals who provide me with this opportunity to to guide them and attend to their growth and development.

These are the submissives who are able to develop more personal relationships with me. I have subs whose wives send them to me for maintenance, subs who are artists who are working on daily self care practices, and subs who feel unable or uninterested in exploring D/s in primary relationships and seek me out as refuge. My devotees are grateful and understand the importance of tribute in our relationship.

The places that I take submissives in a session are not necessarily places that I would like to go in a personal relationship. The boundaries around a professional relationship become a container with which to hold space for things to be worked through. For me to fill you, pour you out and rebuild you. There is no shame in paying a professional to expertly meet your needs.  While I am not a therapist, I find BDSM to be a healing modality and therapeutic. It is difficult terrain to navigate when a primary partner or friend plays the role of therapist.

That being said, many people want things that I am not able to offer. And while I hope that my musings on the relationship between sex work, professional domination and money may help to normalize and unpack some sitgma and shame some people have around seeing professionals; many people want a primary D/s relationship where most of their sexual needs are being met and that’s okay. It always makes me happy when a submissive of mine is able to advocate for their needs and desires and find ways to integrate kink into their relationships in a way that works for them. Sometimes this means they stop seeing me, and sometimes it means they see me more! Here are some tips that I have seen help people find the types of relationships they are looking for:

  • Let go of attachment to fantasy or fetishes. I know this might seem counter intuitive, but if you are wondering why you’re having no success in finding a partner who is into dressing up as a spider and cuckolding you with her spider prey and that’s the only way you can get off, you are seriously limiting your options. Be open. Don’t top from the bottom. Try to let go of immediate attachment to your fantasies or fetishes and work on establishing open and supportive relationships with people. You don’t need to settle for a partner who isn’t into what you’re into, but you may need to give a partner time to understand your needs and learn to see how exciting it is to make your fantasies a reality. Work on your communication skills and practice articulating your needs in less stressful situations. If good communication is foundational to your relationship, sharing your kinks and fetishes won’t be as scary! In the meantime, consider seeing a professional so you can make sure your needs are being met too!
  • Seek out open partners who get off on other people’s pleasure (or pain!). If you don’t do this yourself, figure out how you feel when prioritizing someone else’s pleasure over yours. Is this something you are able to do? Is it something you can work on? Compassionate, empathic people are often more generous lovers. People often flag for this in more ‘vanilla’ dating profiles as GGG, or open-minded.
  • There is nothing wrong with exploring with a professional. Often times this is a good place to practice asking for what you need and not getting shut down (unless that’s your thing!) learning to articulate your needs while being supported by an open and empathic professional can clear up a lot of room for growth and potential space to find what you are seeking in a primary partner. Also, a professional relationship with a dominatrix can still be very rewarding and beneficial and in many cases fits or augments an individual’s needs better than a primary, personal kink relationship.
  • Build community. Make a fetlife account. Engage in online forums, rather than immediately making an ask from an individual. Go to kinky events. Volunteer. Go to a munch. Be quiet. Observe. Don’t expect anyones time. Be gracious and grateful. Watch how people interact. Take your ego out of it. Instead of asking for someone to serve your needs, ask how you can be of service to others. Go somewhere to learn. Take a class. Ask thoughtful questions. Learn about other people’s experiences and interests.
  • Cultivate your interests outside of kink. No one likes a one trick pony. Maintain a healthy work-life balance. Attend to your mental and physical health. Go to lectures, art events, music, shows, dancing. The crowds that attend cultural events are often open-minded and interesting people. Who knows what could happen!

January Travel: West Palm Beach and Los Angeles.

I will be spending some time in West Palm Beach and Los Angeles this January. I will have limited availability and hoping to connect with some like minded kinksters! Please note that I prefer prebookings and longer engagements while I am traveling. I am picky about who I choose to see, so be sure to follow my instructions to make sure that your application stands out. To find out more, click here. To apply to serve, click here.


West Palm Beach: January 8-13
Los Angeles: January 17-22

Holiday Wishlist, 2017.

For those of you looking to wow me this holiday season, here is a little insider information as to what objects I have been fetishizing and lusting after recently… (list in priority order).

1. Sticotti Modular Shelving Units G and C

2. 27″ iMac Retina 5K Display 3.5GHz Processor 1 or 2TB Storage

3. Black Shearling Naska Biker Jacket by Rick Owens (all black, small)

4. Zana Bayne- Diamante Belted Vest (gold hardware) or Bowery Skirt (silver hardware) (small)

5. John Fluvog – Cubist Cupcake, black leather boots,  7.5


6. Edge O’ Beyond, TSE, Journelle, West Elm, or John Fluvog-  $500+ Gift Voucher

7.  Majesty Black – Bolero – Black – Small

8. Garo Sparo – Custom Corsetted Cat Suit – Inquire with me for sizing and instructions

9. Mr. S. Leather – Unlined Leather Hood

10. Axel Whips – Leather (bottom) themed 4′ whip (contact me for specifications)

Upstate Leather Daddy Estate with Natasha Gornik.

Natasha Gornik is someone whose work I’ve admired for a few years and earlier in August, I had the opportunity to shoot with her.

I met Natasha on a country street in Upstate New York and we went to visit my friend Bo in the Catskills. He gave us free reign of his luxurious 3-story house and victorian gardens. Bo’s house is full of elegant mahogany tables, leather furniture and beautiful light. Each corner was a treasure trove of luxurious materials and items.

Shooting with Natasha is an exciting and charged experience. During our shoot we talked about how fun it would be to have her document and photo-domme in one of my sessions. Can you imagine this babe capturing all of your dirtiest secrets? Swoon! Contact me if you’re interested and make our dreams a reality.

Here are some of my favorite images from our shoot upstate.





Doubles with Mistress Victoria Robinson

Simultaneously nurturing and cruel, Mistress Victoria Robinson and I are a force to be reckoned with.



Our energy feeds exquisitely off of each other in session and she is one of my favorite women to play with. Luckily for you, we are now seeing eager sluts for training and double sessions in NYC.

Some of our favorite sessions include leather worship, slave training, double mommy play and double-teaming masochists.




Summer Travel

I will be traveling around quite a bit this summer, primarily for personal pleasure, however I will have a few slots available to meet, play with and train new subs. Advanced noticed is HIGHLY recommended.

La Domaine Esemar, Upstate NY — June 8th-12th: I will be taking solo sessions as well as doubles with my sister, Mistress Couple. All of my nature sluts, this is your opportunity to play outside with the grass beneath your knees and a breeze on your rosy behind. There is also nothing I love more than co topping with Mistress Couple, our energies feed exquisitely off of each other.

Buffalo, NY — June 30th & July 1st: Limited Availability

Portland, ME — July 3rd, 4th and 5th: Limited Availability

San Juan, Puerto Rico — July 21st-25th (tentative dates): Limited Availability

Los Angeles, CA — Mid August: (dates TBD) Limited Availability


**Please note that for travel engagements outside of La Domaine, I have a 90minute minimum, 50% deposit and 1 week notice requirement. A well worthwhile investment for those eager to be at my feet and put to use.