Folsom 2019

My sweet Australian Submissive flew me from New York to San Francisco so I could parade her around the Folsom Street Fair. We made quite the scene as I dragged her around by the hair and whipped her in the streets. The energy of all of the leather daddys, leather dykes, and perverts was incredible. It feels so amazing being surrounded by your people and being witnessed in a public scene by fellow perverts.

New York City’s Folsom East is fun, but being able to get swept up in the crowd of perversion in San Francisco for this NYC Dominatrix was fun.

The night before the big event I went to a Femme centered play party. I met up with some of my leather family and we planned an elaborate Judaism high holiday scene which involved me cutting off one of my curls to glue on to a good jewish boy’s head for his bar mitzvah. Our honorific of choice was Bubbe and Zayde. I’ll let you imagine the rest. A little bit of religious play is always fun for me. Plus, I got to work in a little foot worship, foot fetish, boot care, human furniture and objectification all before the big day.

I’ll definitely be going next year! If you want to book a public session with me, this is a good way to do it! Click here if you want to be my Folsom arm candy and book a session.

The post that got me kicked off Instagram! ^

Someone even made memes of our scene! Now, I am back in NYC getting caught up with all of my regular, devoted submissives. This NYC Domme is very content with her trip to the West Coast. I can’t wait to return. As we always end the high holidays, next year in San Francisco!

Mistress Blunt in San Francisco for Folsom

I only make it to San Francisco once a year, and this year, I made sure that I would be there for the Folsom Street Festival. The first time I went to Folsom was the first time that I had my leathers (head to toe) done at a boot blacking station. Since then, I have been incorporating more leather worship and care into all of my sessions. I am excited to go to all of SF’s best kink parties, to indulge my leather fetish to the fullest, and to hang out with some of my favorite SF prodommes.

I am accepting VERY limited professional dominatrix sessions in San Francisco September 27-29th. I already have plans to drag a submissive girl around on a leash for some public worship and torture at a lesbian bar. What other trouble will I get into?

Click here to fill out my contact form to apply for a session while I am in San Francisco.

Manifestation 2019

The thing about BDSM that interests me is a genuine exchange of power. Your submission is a gift. Thank you for letting me play with it. I enjoy dominating individuals who are grounded. Individuals who are submitting to me not out of a place of need but a place of desire. A desire to be seen, to be held and a desire to surrender.

BDSM can be healing, let’s explore alternative paths to embodiment

In the next year I hope to call in more sessions with people who are like me; Queer. I hope to session with people who are exploring gender in interesting and creative ways, with people who are looking to delve deeply into the body and establish new relationships with a body that they may have a complicated relationship with. BDSM is a great way to be sexual and intimate without a necessary focus on genitals. I work with a lot of folks who have trauma histories or traumatic relationships with their bodies and are interested in BDSM as a healing practice.

I am interested in training individuals in my high protocol D/s dynamics. I am interested in people who thrive in D/s dynamics and find a form of mutual support in how they support their Domme through their submission.

I am letting go of folks who push my boundaries, of people who want more from me than I am able to give, and of succubus clients where no matter how much they pay, it never feels equitable because it is so exhausting.

I am working on being firm with my boundaries and establishing more rigid check ins with the clients I have established relationships with while saving energy for personal relationships and friendships.

My favorite sessions revolve entirely around establishing firm D/s dynamics, slave training, orgasm control and weaving foot, boot, leather worship and select other fetishes into my training style.

I would love more:

  1. Extended GFE Domme Sessions
  2. Bath fetish sessions (doubles with the Goddess Aviva!)
  3. Sorority Hazing session with 2+ other Domme friends.
  4. Death Meditations, Death role plays and entheogen exploration, offering your life into the hands of a Goddess and the earth.
  5. Whips. I would love to play with more heavy masochists who love whips as much as I do.
  6. Leather body bag / mummification sessions.
  7. Gender exploration sessions.
  8. Blood play // Needle Play
  9. Ritual Work
  10. Foot fetish sessions // ass worship // face sitting sessions
  11. Working with newbies to figure out what they want and to step into their dominance or submission.
  12. Tease and Denial Sessions

Keep in mind that I keep an afternoon a week open for sliding scale 2-hr sessions for people who are not cis-men.

Dream Clients:

In order to discuss any of the following, please send a $100 Amazon gift card and a letter of inquiry.

Here are some opportunities for more personal service for slaves who are interested in contributing to my life in a meaningful capacity, but are uninterested in or not ready for traditional sessions or would like to deepen and augment our relationship outside of session.

  1. Someone interested in contributing annually to my Roth IRA. Maybe you are in the business of money and get off on ensuring your Goddess has financial security and wise investments. ($5500 annually)
  2. Generous ‘Patron’ slaves interested in socializing and funding my education in yoga and public health research ($200 to discuss)
  3. A self care slave: someone interested in contributing monthly for my self care indulgences with whom I will bestow the honor of attending a massage or yoga class with me every month and an opportunity to discuss how to improve their own self care practices. ($1500 monthly)
  4. A farmer’s market slave to take me shopping at the Union Square Farmer’s Market for farm fresh veggies, local goodies and flowers weekly or 2x. ($150-$200 per trip)
  5. A fetish slave: to have the privilege of taking me shopping for leather, cashmere, silk, boots and stockings and the privilege of watching me indulge my fetishes and hedonism. ($1000 minimum)
  6. A community service slave who texts me weekly or monthly asking what charity I would like them to donate to.  ($100 minimum)
  7. More slaves to tend to my wish lists and surprise me with gifts.
  8. Open to bartering with a furniture making submissive!
  9. Devoted, submissive masochists to the front of the line, please

Sweaty Summers in NYC

I’ve been traveling a lot the last few months, but New York City will always be my home. Through and through I am a NYC-Dominatrix. My favorite BDSM clients hail from New York City. Maybe it is something with the masochism of living and surviving in this sweaty and expensive city that makes submissives from NYC so sweet. Or maybe I am just a homebody who enjoys making people come to me. Either way, I’ve learned that even as a traveling dominatrix, I am a New York City dominatrix at heart. NYC will always be my home, and you will always be my bitch.

xxMistress Blunt

 

Forced Self Care

I adore create  sustainable self care practices for my submissives. In order to serve me up to my standards, one must first learn to take care of themselves. I expect submissives to actively engage with their health, and work to become their best version of themselves so that they can offer more to me and surrender completely.

As fun as it may be to play with taking advantage of your weaknesses, I take much greater pleasure in you confronting them yourself and offering me a self that has been worked on and explored. It is so much more intoxicating and challenging to dominate someone who is willingly offering me the entirety of a thoroughly examined self.

I love toying with the concept of forced self care. Sometimes it is through relinquishing control that we learn to wield it and in turn learn to care for ourselves. Can you learn to relinquish control without relinquishing responsibility for self care and self worth? I support clients to have healthy relationships with their bodies and with their masochism.

We all know that it is often easier to say something nice about someone else, than it is to accept compliments for ourselves. We are often our own harshest critics. Devoting your practice, the fruits of your labor and the actions of your life to your Mistress allows you the ease of serving ‘other’ while simultaneously serving the Self and reaping the benefits of submission. Your actions become in service to your Mistress, every action embedded with a deep sense of gratitude, grounding and humility.

As a New York City Dominatrix, I know that the rush of life can be overwhelming. NYC is madness. Find stillness at my feet. Beg me to be your guide and create a self care regimen for you, as an act of service to me. A holistic dominatrix? A dominant personal trainer? An encouraging life-coach with beautiful feet? Who would have thought that what you are seeking was right here all along.

# through  has infinite potential.

High Protocol D/s

As a classically trained dominatrix, there is nothing that I enjoy more than high protocol D/s (Dominance/submission) training. Training a submissive up to my standards creates the building blocks to develop a beautiful and mutually beneficial relationship. A relationship where you are able to serve me to my standards. A relationship where you prioritize my pleasure. A relationship where your body becomes a vehicle for service.

Having a harem of well trained submissives in NYC and Brooklyn brings me so much pleasure. Do you think you have what it takes to join the ranks of my harem?

Cuck Holiday Wishlist

Maybe for the holidays you are looking for something a little bit different. Maybe you are interested in getting my lover a new pair of designer shoes to wear while he takes me out. Maybe you’d like to get us lingerie for him to tear off of me. Or maybe you’d like to get us matching couple sweaters while you jerk off in front of your computer alone. Lol.

Here are a few objectives of desire that would please my lover and I.

1. Gift cards to Hotel.com So we can take a fuckcation.

2. Boots and a jacket for him. Or maybe these boots? He wears a size 13 shoe and at 6’4″ an XL jacket.

3. What about matching sweaters for us? I think that that’s just adorable.

4. For him to tear off me…

**Venmo or PayPal amount with holiday note and an indication of what they are for!

2018 Holiday Wishlist

For those who asked, here is my holiday wishlist, though to be honest, my life (and closet) are pretty full. And, as always, cash is king. If you’d like to get me something sweet for the holidays this year, I’d adore you stuffing my stocking with cold hard cash. Cash for me to invest, for me to go on vacation with, for me to spend on bodywork, for me to continue decorating my apartment for me to spoil family and friends. Nothing makes me sleep as sweetly as sleeping on top of a mattress on a pile of cash…

…but that’s not to say that I can’t make room for exquisite objects. Here are a few I have been wet dreaming about.

1. I have been dying for this stunning, white,  cast iron Le Creuset set. I love cooking and feeding family, friends and lovers over the holidays.

2. I’ve never met a pair of thigh high boots I didn’t like. I’ve had my eye on this pair from Louboutin.

3. Indulge my cashmere fetish. This, this or this from TSE Cashmere.

4. Witchy shoes from John Fluevog.

 

Perhaps you’d like to get me a new toy or device for my dungeon that you adore too! Perhaps you’d like to be bound in these Fetters full arm bondage mitts. Or maybe you’d love to go all the way and play with me in a custom leather body bag made precisely to your measurements?

Perhaps you know that facilitating me making people I love smile is the way to my heart. If that’s the case, my Momma has been begging me to make a boy buy her shoes. She would ADORE a gift card to John Fluevog.

Or maybe you’re not aMomma’s boy and you are just a cuck. Maybe you would enjoy buying beautiful objects for my lover and I? Check out my cuck wishlist if that’s the case. I put it together just for you.

Nothing pleases me more than when people who adore me support the communities I do activism work with. Maybe you’d like to make a year end giving donation in my honor. I prefer smaller not non-profit organizations who I know will give the money directly where needed. Send a donation to Red Canary Song (paypal to redcanarysong@protonmail.com) or for Alisha Walker’s family to visit her in prison. If you’d like to make a donation to a 501 C3, I like supporting the Third Wave FundSex Worker Giving Circle.

I know you want to please me, aren’t you lucky that I know exactly what I want?

**Venmo or PayPal amount with holiday note and an indication of what they are for!

Manifesting: Dream Sessions and Dream Clients.

I know, darlings. Perhaps you’re new to this. Perhaps you still think that this relationship is about what you want. But this is about power exchange. This is not about your ego, this is about learning to serve another. I am uninterested in your fantasy. Of course, revealing them to me is encouraged, as it gives me an understanding of your psyche and of how to mold you into the perfect supplicant for service. I know what I want, I know how to articulate my needs, and that means that there are plenty of opportunities for you to please me.

What I am interested in, is you relinquishing complete and utter control. Abandoning your attachment to a fantasy or role play and surrendering yourself completely at my feet. I am interested in training individuals who are interested in serving me exactly how I like to be served. In that vein, here are a few session ideas that I would like to explore and a few opportunities for relationships outside of traditional sessions that I would like to cultivate this year. Here are a few ideas of how you can attempt to please me and bring a smile to my face.

Fantasy/Favorite Sessions:

  1. My favorite sessions revolve entirely around establishing firm D/s dynamics, slave training, orgasm control and weaving foot, boot, leather worship and select other fetishes into my training style.
  2. Cucking cucks with other cucks.
  3. Castration fetish fantasy session where we listen to detachable penis on repeat.
  4. Bath fetish sessions (doubles with the Goddess Aviva!)
  5. Sorority Hazing session with 2+ other Domme friends.
  6. Death Meditations, Death role plays and entheogen exploration, offering your life into the hands of a Goddess and the earth.
  7. Whips. I would love to play with more heavy masochists who love whips as much as I do.
  8. Leather body bag / mummification sessions.
  9. All the femme and nonbinary babes!

Dream Clients:

In order to discuss any of the following, please send a $100 Amazon gift card and a letter of inquiry.

Here are some opportunities for more personal service for slaves who are interested in contributing to my life in a meaningful capacity, but are uninterested in or not ready for traditional sessions or would like to deepen and augment our relationship outside of session.

  1. Someone interested in contributing annually to my Roth IRA. Maybe you are in the business of money and get off on ensuring your Goddess has financial security and wise investments. ($5500 annually)
  2. Generous ‘Patron’ slaves interested in socializing and funding my education in yoga and public health research ($200 to discuss)
  3. A self care slave: someone interested in contributing monthly for my self care indulgences with whom I will bestow the honor of attending a massage or yoga class with me every month and an opportunity to discuss how to improve their own self care practices. ($1500 monthly)
  4. A farmer’s market slave to take me shopping at the Union Square Farmer’s Market for farm fresh veggies, local goodies and flowers weekly or 2x. ($150-$200 per trip)
  5. A fetish slave: to have the privilege of taking me shopping for leather, cashmere, silk, boots and stockings and the privilege of watching me indulge my fetishes and hedonism. ($1000 minimum)
  6. A community service slave who texts me weekly or monthly asking what charity I would like them to donate to.  ($100 minimum)
  7. More slaves to tend to my wish lists and surprise me with gifts.
  8. Open to bartering with a furniture making submissive!
  9. Devoted, submissive masochists to the front of the line, please!