I adore create  sustainable self care practices for my submissives. In order to serve me up to my standards, one must first learn to take care of themselves. I expect submissives to actively engage with their health, and work to become their best version of themselves so that they can offer more to me and surrender completely.

As fun as it may be to play with taking advantage of your weaknesses, I take much greater pleasure in you confronting them yourself and offering me a self that has been worked on and explored. It is so much more intoxicating and challenging to dominate someone who is willingly offering me the entirety of a thoroughly examined self.

I love toying with the concept of forced self care. Sometimes it is through relinquishing control that we learn to wield it and in turn learn to care for ourselves. Can you learn to relinquish control without relinquishing responsibility for self care and self worth? I support clients to have healthy relationships with their bodies and with their masochism.

We all know that it is often easier to say something nice about someone else, than it is to accept compliments for ourselves. We are often our own harshest critics. Devoting your practice, the fruits of your labor and the actions of your life to your Mistress allows you the ease of serving ‘other’ while simultaneously serving the Self and reaping the benefits of submission. Your actions become in service to your Mistress, every action embedded with a deep sense of gratitude, grounding and humility.

As a New York City Dominatrix, I know that the rush of life can be overwhelming. NYC is madness. Find stillness at my feet. Beg me to be your guide and create a self care regimen for you, as an act of service to me. A holistic dominatrix? A dominant personal trainer? An encouraging life-coach with beautiful feet? Who would have thought that what you are seeking was right here all along.

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