I got to chat with fellow boot fetishist, Femdom, and porn performer Daisy Ducati about our love of boots, how we relate to high Femme aesthetics, and how we first found our love of boots. From making men in strip clubs lick spilled drinks off boots to Domming fully nude in nothing but boots, we trade stories and wax poetic about our love of boots.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Hello, everyone. I am Mistress Danielle Blunt, and I am here today with Daisy Ducati, where we’ll be talking about everyone’s favorite topic, boots. Daisy, would you introduce yourself?
Daisy Ducati:
Hi, I’m Daisy. I have been in the adult industry for almost a decade. I actually just won my first AVN, which I’m really excited about. And I’m super excited to be here talking to you about one of my favorite things in the world.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Amazing! Well, congratulations on your award. That’s so exciting.
Daisy Ducati:
Thank you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah. What does the award mean to you? I’m curious if you could talk a little bit about your career in porn. And I know you focus a lot on femdom as well, and what that means to have your work recognized like that by AVN.
Daisy Ducati:
So I had a super non-traditional career arc in porn. I kind of started shooting adult film at Kink for the most part, and doing like really hardcore BDSM scenes, a lot of the things that other performers who generally start with an agent would save for years later in their career, I did at six months (laughs). So I was doing gangbangs and fisting and anal and all that right out the gate. And in a lot of ways, it helped me get more work, but it also kind of affected the way my career progressed.
But I really like doing extreme stuff, so it was fun (laughs). But I also didn’t get a lot of the same recognition that other performers get. My first convention, I had to buy my tickets to the convention, and then I had someone else’s sugar daddy buy me a table, and I was not invited at all. I didn’t know how to be invited. So to go from that to winning niche performer of the year is mind blowing to me. I can’t even wrap my head around it, really. I didn’t expect to win at all. It’s been so many years of not winning anything that I just was like, “Oh, okay, whatever.” But I won.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Congrats.
Daisy Ducati:
It’s really exciting.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Very exciting, very well deserved. Yeah.
Daisy Ducati:
Thank you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I think, thinking about extreme is definitely a word that I would also use to describe some of your themes, which I love, and I love a lot of the femdom content that you’ve shot for different places, including Kink. And I’m curious, was femdom something you were interested in your personal life? How did you kind of get… I don’t know if that’s the niche that you won for, but it’s definitely a niche that I associate with. So I would love if you could talk a little bit about what attracts you to femdom and how you kind of got into that wheelhouse.
Daisy Ducati:
I genuinely enjoy power play, and it was something I was into before I was doing porn. I had private play partners, I had sessions that I was doing, and I just liked exploring sexuality and playing with fetishes and being able to use duality as power. It’s so much fun. It’s so much fun. To turn that into a career has been pretty incredible.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I don’t even know if I know how to have sex without exploring power dynamics at this point. I was just trying to think of what that would look like, and I can’t even conjure up an image.
Daisy Ducati:
(both laugh). Yeah, it’s… Once you open Pandora’s box, it’s hard to go back in the box.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
It really is. Are there things that you’ve shot for a scene that you weren’t necessarily interested in to start with but kind of walked away either being like, “Fuck that, I’m never doing that again,” or like, “Holy shit, I now have a new fetish.”
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. So like I said, the first six months in I was kind of doing everything and with power play, especially with my submissive scenes, I don’t necessarily identify with it, but if you approach it from a stunt performer perspective and see what I’m capable of, there were definitely some things where I was like, “Okay, that was cool but I probably won’t do it again.” Like getting tased on my asshole was probably not my thing, but I can say that I did it.
But also I discovered that I do have a very serious e-stim fetish, and I had no idea before I got into porn. It was such a scary thing to me and I wouldn’t go there before, but once I was booked for a shoot for Electrosluts, I was like, “Okay, I like money and I like girls, so let’s try it.” And it turned out to be something that I’m very much into, and I ended up being one of the main tops on Electrosluts because I was one of the only people they could find that actually enjoyed it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
So fun and feels like, I feel like omni powerful when I do electricity. It’s like you’re penetrating someone in such a deep way while exerting minimal force, which if you know anything about me, I like to do as little as possible to get as much of an impact as possible, call it low spoons domination. But I feel like electricity is such a fun way to play with that.
Daisy Ducati:
And for me, because I actually like it, it’s really fun for me to sort of, if I’m topping, to make fun of my bottom not being able to handle as much as I can.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah. Okay, I have this big memory and I think it might have been you, but I’m not sure, of someone submissive being afraid of a cattle prod and then the top tased, like hitting their tongue with a cattle prod. Was that you?
Daisy Ducati:
That was probably me (laughs). That’s something I do.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
(laughs) That is seared into my brain. And I think that style of domination… And I think this is why switches also make such good tops, because you know where you’re bringing someone and you get to make fun and be like, “Oh, I could take that, you can’t?”
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. I almost never do anything to other people that hasn’t been done to me. So I know what it feels like, I know what the limits are, and I know how far I can push.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah. I feel like a much older guard style of domming, of wanting to have experience trying out these toys and tools on yourself first before doing it to someone. And I think what you’re saying is so true, that you really can push someone a little bit further if you know where they’re going or where they’ve been.
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. And I think it kind of goes back to the way I got into domination, is I didn’t just decide to do it one day. I actually had a mentor that taught me and kind of raised me up in the world of domination. So again, that’s kind of an old guard way to do it, I guess. And it taught me to know what everything is before I go out and do it to someone.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Totally. I didn’t know that about your background. I’m so interested in that because I also kind of grew up or came up in older guard places where I was gifted, passed down my first pair of leather boots, which we’ll get to soon. But I would love if you could talk a little bit about that older guard style of training, which it sounds like you had, and what that did for you.
Daisy Ducati:
When I was just doing regular modeling, I did want to do fetish stuff but I didn’t really know much about it, and so I actually contacted Eve Minax and said like, I want to work in this world and be mentored by you, and I will work for free and clean your dungeon, whatever you need, and just teach me your ways. And I think she was a little caught off guard by me randomly hitting her up out of the blue, but she was into it. So we became really, really good friends, and it was like the first time I’d actually set foot in a real dungeon, and she taught me how things work. I had my first session as a double with her. And I think that it’s a little different than some other people I know who trained with a mentor and earned their domination, is the fact that submission wasn’t really my thing, but I was willing to work for her as a personal assistant. And I think that dynamic worked really well for us.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah. I definitely had much more of an earn your leathers from the bottom up. Maybe this is a cult. Hopefully we’ll find out later. That was my foray into the leather scene and was just like… I kind of envy, it sounds like you also got business advice from your mentor, which I definitely did not get from mine. Mine was much more like lifestyle, so I feel like when I went to the city and started working full time, I was kind of like, at a fucking loss on how to run a business or how to do this professionally. But all of the submissives in their service were naked, so I spent the first part of my time training to be a domme totally nude, and actually earned my first pair of leather boots, which I would then wear into sessions completely naked in nothing but these sky high stiletto boots. And I think that was one of my first introductions to how powerful a pair of boots can make you and how much it can transform your persona and how you are moving through a space. It definitely didn’t hurt that the boots belonged to my mistress at the time, so I was like, “Oh, this is amazing.” And just going, that differential of, I’m not even fully dressed, it’s literally just the pair of boots to completely transform how I’m enjoying the space.
Daisy Ducati:
Wow. That’s amazing. That sounds so hot.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I know, I was getting a little flustered when I was sharing that. That is my introduction to boots, I guess. I also for Halloween once dressed up as a dominatrix and my mom actually had a pair of boots.
Daisy Ducati:
(laughs) Me too!
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Did you really? I told my dad I was dressing up as Catwoman and I had to get a whip from Hot Topic and tied up all of my friends. This is embarrassing, but I later learned that the boots were actually my mom’s and not her friend’s like she told me they were. But yeah, I’m curious, what is your first experience with boots? When did you kind of realize that there was a link between boots and your sexuality?
Daisy Ducati:
I’ve always been into high heels of all sorts. I’ve been modeling most of my life. And I remember being fairly young and just discovering the power that a good pair of shoes can have when you walk into a room, like you were saying, you walk in completely naked and just boots and people are just in awe of how hot that is. But even before I got into BDSM, I’m also pretty tall. I’m five nine, so I already am taller than a lot of people. And then the power you have over someone and to be able to see over all the heads in the room was so hot to me. And I also have a huge giantess fetish, and I always wanted to be like seven feet tall. I wanted to be obscenely tall. Being able to find that in a pair of shoes that also just elongated my legs and just made everything sexier, or you could wear nothing with them, was just incredible.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
It sounds like there’s a little bit of a shoe fetish and maybe foot fetish as well. And I always think of when someone’s kneeling in front of your feet, it’s such a D/s posture that brings up so many different emotions. And I often start my sessions like that because I think it’s something that just so quickly puts someone into a submissive headspace and that kind of power differential, that height differential just really works. And whether you’re staring at someone’s feet or a sexy pair of heels or like a really powerful pair of leather boots, it is an amazing feeling. Yeah. So I’m curious, what does Daisy look for in a pair of boots?
Daisy Ducati:
Oh. Well, I generally like them to have a very high heel. I like the leather to be soft. I’m not super into rigid boots. They don’t necessarily have to be comfortable depending on what I’m using them for. Also, I tend to prefer platforms, but the arch has to be really high. So my first tattoo is the Elvira tattoo on my hip where she’s sitting on a person, and I had the hardest time explaining to my tattoo artist the importance of the tip of heel and the ankles. It was like, this is the most important thing of the whole tattoo to have hyper-extended ankles and a really high arch and really high heels.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Oh my God, I love that. Did the tattoo artist get it?
Daisy Ducati:
I don’t think he fully understood why, but he got what I was saying. He got it enough to draw the picture.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
That’s amazing. Yeah, I think I am definitely much more of a flat than a platform person, because I like to feel someone’s tongue through the bottom of the boot, and I feel a little bit too far away with platforms. But I think it’s also just heavily influenced from a boot fetishist that I used to see all of the time who had a very specific style of boot in the way that, exactly what you’re describing, like how the arch should be and like the proportions of the shoe. And I think that kind of came on to me also because now I own like 20 boots that are in that specific style. But right now I’m looking for a pair of strappy heels for a photo shoot and I’m having such a hard time finding them because all I want are boots and I don’t know how to shoe shop anymore. All I can do is boot shop.
Daisy Ducati:
I have the same problem. For me it’s either boots or stripper heels. I have some trouble buying “normal girl” shoes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I don’t think I own any. Yeah, it’s either like… I have an absurd amount of thigh-high boots, which I’m not complaining about. I think my favorite pair are, they’re like, Givenchy thigh-high boots, the softest leather I’ve ever felt in my life. And I call them flats. I’ve been told that they’re not actually flats, but they’re flats for me. They have maybe like a two-inch heel, but they’re kind of every day thigh-high leather boots. And so I get to wear them when I’m running out for errands and they just immediately jazz up an outfit and I get so excited that I can incorporate them without having to actually wear heels and have some of that protective power of leather.
Daisy Ducati:
I love it. I love it. I think right now my favorite, I have these Prada ankle booties, and again the leather’s super soft and they just smell amazing. The heel is pretty high, it’s probably a good six-inch heel and it’s got a little bit of a platform, but the leather kind of covers the platform. They just fit a glove, they’re perfect in every way. And just the way they feel on my feet and even the sound they make when they walk is just perfect.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
That’s so important. I feel like shoe or boot websites need to have the models actually walking in them. So going to be like, what would this sound like coming down the dungeon stairs? Because that was also such a big part. The dungeon that I trained in had these stairs down into the basement dungeon space, and they were the stairs that you could kind of see through, so you would watch your domme come down the stairs and listening to the shoes and seeing just a little peek of the heel as they’re coming down the stairs. And it’s such an auditory experience. Have you had your boots blacked before? Do you remember the first time that you had someone work on your boots?
Daisy Ducati:
So there was this goth guy I used to go to in San Francisco. I don’t think they’re around anymore, but oh, I had so much fun there. And they would regularly have this boot black come in and I was wearing the Prada boots and it was just such an experience having this person just, I can’t even form words it was so hot.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Right? I felt my first time, I was at Folsom and I was like, “I’m going to get my boots done.” I had people kind of do it very casually but never a formal introduction to my boots. I was actually in head to toe leather too, so I got the full body treatment, which was amazing. And I was legitimately cumming in this person’s chair as I’m just like, “Oh my God, this is a full body orgasm. Oh my god, you’re going to lick my boot now.” I felt like very nervous. A good boot black, ooh, can give you quite the experience. And I think boots should be properly cared for. I feel like it taught me to properly care for shoes and boots too. Having a boot fetish, that you can reheel boots is something that I learned from those spaces.
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. Some of my boots I’ve had for many, many, many years and they’ve been through some repairs. You’ve got to have a real good shoe person to fix things because sometimes you just can’t let them go.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I know. I’m curious, your Prada boots, are they the ones with the really cool tread that are coming out now? Have you seen those ones with this really thick, rubbery kind of nineties feeling tread?
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah, I have some shoes that are like that, but the Prada, they have just a regular sole. But actually, I had these booties, they are retired now, that had it. But I had these booties that I wore fucking everywhere, and they had the work boot tread, and they had probably four, four and a half inch heel, but it was a chunky heel, so they were super easy to walk in. I could do cartwheels and things. They felt like sneakers with heels. I used to wear them all up and down San Francisco, but I actually wore them to Greece when I went to Athens. And it hadn’t really occurred to me how far up a hill the Parthenon was. And so I was like, “I’m going to go check it out,” (laughs). It was kind of a magical experience to be honest. And I was fine, I’m used to hiking around San Francisco in those, so it wasn’t a big deal. But I felt amazing about it and definitely got some strange looks, but it was a moment of pride for me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
That’s so funny. I think the goddesses would like boots, would like these boots.
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. It felt really cool to be able to stand right in front the temple of Athena and just stand there in my heels. And I had this really cool jumpsuit with rhinestones, I was way overdressed.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
You’re like me too. Goddess, right?
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. Overdressing is kind of my thing.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I’m kind of like underdressed, but with really nice shoes, is my vibe.
Daisy Ducati:
See it’s a very classy way of dressing that it’s appropriate for just about any situation. I can generally dress like a stripper.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
You’ve also stripped before, right? You’ve done all different types of work. What was your relationship with shoes when you were stripping?
Daisy Ducati:
Oh, I was that girl in the club. I’ll tell you a story. One of my favorite experiences, I was working in this club in San Francisco and I was still fairly new to stripping but I had been doing dom sessions for a while and I was already working at Kink. And I was at the bar talking to this group of guys, and one guy was kind of a drunk mess and he bumped into me and spilled his drink all down my leg and all over my shoes. I looked him dead in the eye with a straight face like, you’re going to get down there and lick it up, aren’t you? And he did. And then we spent an hour in the champagne room.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Oh my God, amazing. You clocked him.
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. And that was one of the moments where I realized I don’t have to be a bubbly, nice girl stripper. I can just be me and people will still pay me for that. And yeah, I was definitely not a very nice stripper, but I was a fun stripper.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I love that. I’ve never stripped before. Both very shy, not a good dancer, and not very nice. So I respect the stripper hustle so much and love when people are able to do it in a way that works with them and the personality that they kind of want to present. That’s so fun and I am sure you got up to all types of kinky shenanigans.
Daisy Ducati:
Oh, don’t even get me started.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Do you feel like the strip club hustle, you were able to clock the kinksters? Or I guess if you’re looking at the boots a certain way, you’re flagging for a certain type of style.
Daisy Ducati:
The thing is, my domination style has always been pretty playful to begin with. So to just like, maybe I’m joking, maybe I’m not, then they don’t generally get offended by it. Some people do and that’s fine, you just walk away and move on. I definitely was able to pick out the kinksters. And one of my favorite regulars of all time taught me so much about the extent of fetishes and how anything can be a fetish. This man had a fetish for puffy coats and that was all he was into. He was into hot girls in puffy coats, and he just wanted us to put on his coat or rub our butts on his coat. A couple girls he bought coats for.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Oh my God. First of all, I just got a leather puffy coat and I get it, is what I’ll say.
Daisy Ducati:
That sounds hot.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah. I’ll put it on for you at the end. But I was like never… I think that’s what’s so interesting about the type of sex work that we do that does deal with folks’ fetishes so prevalently, is that people’s sexualities can get kind of hooked on anything. And I think it’s so interesting seeing people’s arousal for this very specific thing, whether it be a boot fetishist, like I need this angle on the heel, or like platforms or no platforms, or a puffy coat or like a specific part of the body or just something that you’d never thought to sexualize before is so fun.
Daisy Ducati:
It’s fascinating. And even down to a foot fetish, there’s eight different kinds of foot fetish. Each part of the foot has its own fetish. It’s how intricate and involved fetishes can get. And I think it’s important to not pathologize fetishes, because a lot of people try to say, where did this come from to you to make you into this sort of thing. And sometimes it’s just as simple as, I think this one little thing is hot and I want to see more of it. And it’s more important to ask what instead of why I guess.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I love that. And I think too, the why can be so interesting, but also it is, it’s like what, tell me more about that. What about that is so arousing? I think it’s so interesting how specific people’s fantasies are. I am thinking of, I had a regular client who was obsessed with my feet, and I personally think I have really nice feet, and dommes compliment my feet all the time, which feels like to me getting an AVN. Other dommes come together and are like, “Damn, Blunt has really nice feet.” That’s like my award that I’ve won.
But I had blue toenails for our first session and it was a super fucking hot session. You could see the sun setting from the dungeon, my feet were on his face and making him look at the sunset and dangling my feet in front of his face. And we were just super connected and it was incredibly sexy. And he saw me again the next time and we started seeing each other weekly. And after a year of seeing me, he was reflecting on our relationship and how exciting it was and he’s like, “I almost didn’t see you again after our first session,” and he was like, “It was the best session of my life, but I hated that your toenails were blue and I only like red toenails.” And so that’s why my nails are always red is because I almost lost out on a shit ton of money. I also appreciate the aesthetic, the classic aesthetic of red nails. I hate making those decisions because I don’t particularly care, I just want them to look good. And that is why my nails are red, is because I like money.
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. Pretty much. Oh man, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve lost out on money because it’s just one little specific thing. And my aesthetic, I like things a certain way, crazy nails, I like big lashes. I like a very stripper aesthetic and I’ve definitely had clients and cam fans, all sorts of people just be like, “I’m not into that one little thing,” but I have to just say, “Okay, well maybe we’re not compatible.”
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I feel that. I got really into the red nails. I also think I love blood, so like red nails and blood look great together. Red nails and black boots look great together. And I’m very into photography, so they kind of became part of my branding. But he didn’t say anything for a year. And it wasn’t a request, “Can I pay you to paint your toenails a different color?” It was just like, “I’ll never see you again.” But I think what I’m getting at, it’s the fetishes can be so specific, and I think finding more language to describe what people are into can just be a really exciting rabbit hole to kind of go down, to be like, was that the perfect boot? Do I need to keep doing more research? Probably. (both laugh)
Daisy Ducati:
There’s always room for more boots.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Besides in my closet.
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
How do you store your boots? Most important part of this conversation.
Daisy Ducati:
Oh, geez. I am kind of a mess. I am not good at organizing things at all. So I have just boots and heels and lingerie and sex toys all over my house stashed in every corner.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I hired a personal organizer to take care of my boot situation because I had no idea what to do. And I’m like, “I have some nice boots, I need to figure out how to store these.” But it’s definitely not how my brain works. But right now I have a whole closet that’s just hanging boots, and sometimes when I’m sad I just open it up and look at it, like my beauties, my precious. My retirement fund, all of it.
Daisy Ducati:
Right. Oh, man. Yeah. I can’t even conceptualize how much money I have in shoes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I think about it way too often. Like they’re my investments, and I hope they increase in value over time through me wearing them. Okay. So what I’ll ask you, what does it feel like to you to have your boots worshiped?
Daisy Ducati:
Oh, it’s orgasmic. It’s almost up there with a vibrator, I would say. It’s pretty close. It feels so amazing, one, to have the power over someone be at my feet. That part is hot. But also to feel some mouth through the leather is an incredible feeling. And just to have someone lick every inch of my boots, I just, mmm.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Feels like, I’ve heard people describe latex like as a second skin. I don’t have a particular affinity for latex. It might be because I’m allergic to it, but leather feels like a second skin to me. And I also like how durable it is. And it feels like a really interesting protection type of second skin that kind of alters how I’m moving through these spaces. And it’s also so interesting, people interact with you very differently when you’re wearing a good pair of boots.
Daisy Ducati:
Yes. And I will say with latex, latex actually plays a pretty key role in my intro to fetishes. Back long before porn, long before domming, I was doing runway. And nothing big, I wasn’t like doing New York Fashion Week or anything, but I was doing these small runway shows in San Francisco. And I got booked to do a runway show with a local latex designer, who I’m still pretty good friends with. And the outfit that she put me in was like, it was this little black and red bikini top, black underwear and a black and red garter, and the stockings and the gloves and all of it. And it was the first time I’d ever worn latex and I was just so obsessed with the way that it felt against my skin and the way that my nails felt on the latex that I literally went to the ATM and bought the outfit before I left. Like, I’m not leaving here without this, and I wore it home under my clothes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah, that’s an amazing feeling. (laughs)
Daisy Ducati:
And so I was like, I need to explore this further. And I ended up becoming her spokesmodel for a while, and I would wear her designs out to clubs and pass out business cards. And I had access to all the latex I could possibly wear. It was amazing. And it started me on a very, very fun journey.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
That sounds very fun. I feel like what we’re talking about is the feeling of transformation. How something non-human kind of takes on a life of its own and kind of animates. And that’s what I think of like… And also if you think of the root of the word fetish, it goes back to these talismans or religious articles that are imbued with this power that is human or godlike, and I think hearing you describe about the way that kind of transforms how you move through space is so interesting.
I’m curious, have you seen… When I was coming up in Kink, I always say 10 years even though I’ve now aged, so I’m just not going to do that. When I was 18 or 19, I would come into the city and train and hang out with a photographer and Goddess Shaye, who had this amazing latex line that…you know like, what they suspend hook suspensions, flesh suspensions with? That they do the anchor point for the straps. Have you seen this? And so this halter top would be pierced into someone with what would suspend people and it was corseted that way around her body. It’s still one of the most interesting fashion designs and art projects that I’ve ever seen. And I was so blown away by, I had never seen anything like this. Everyone looked so hot and everyone’s walking down the runway with these huge gauges pierced through them. I was totally blown away.
Daisy Ducati:
Wow. That sounds really hot. I need to see this.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah, I will definitely find you photos. Then I was like, “Yes, I’m into latex.” But I think for me it was moreso the hooks pierced into people.
Daisy Ducati:
Right. Oh, piercing is so much fun.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I think it was a really interesting play of fetish attire because so many of the things that dommes wear are actually super restrictive. And I don’t know if you’ve felt this way, but I’ve kind of had to figure out what I wear as a domme that makes me feel dominant rather than just kind of like fetish iconographic. Because if I’m like… I’ll take photos in a corset, but if I’m working in a corset, I’m going to pass out. I’ll wear heels in sessions, but I’m going to take them off at some point because I don’t want to be in pain. I want my feet massaged and I want to be admired for my beauty of the outfit I’ve put together. And then I want to use you as like a human table to take off my boots and have them worshiped so I can actually like… It’s a very physical practice for me, and I feel like sometimes the fetish attire really is more submissive feeling.
Daisy Ducati:
I can see that. For me, because I present as so high femme, I feel like mastering things that can be restrictive and that other people would have problems wearing. I think that being able to wear those things and make it look easy is a part of it for me, that that’s a part of the power I guess. And definitely with heels for sure, and corsets. I’ve done a lot of sissification and it’s really fun to wear nine-inch pleasers and to put someone who’s not used to wearing heels into some four-inch heels and say, “Oh you can’t do it, but look what I’m doing.” (laughs)
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah. It is a like a type of bondage for many people. Like hyper femininity, I think. That’s so interesting what you’re saying about mastering feminization as a way of embodying power, which I definitely think of femme armor as part of my dominant persona. And I’m also a sadomasochist. I just, heels fuck my ankles up for days. Sometimes it’s like, take your pictures, get your fantasies in, they’re coming off. I hope you like feet.
Daisy Ducati:
I was always the girl who would domme in Kink scenes and keep my heels on for the whole scene and piss off the fans that want the feet because I was into the shoes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Oh my God, I love that. I have a friend who was always in six to seven-inch heels, like flats. I’m sure she would call them flats, but without a platform. And I’m just like, “I respect your sadomasochism and your devotion and dedication to feminization, and do you want a foot massage?”
Yeah. Can you talk a little bit more about hyper femininity and power and what your relationship between the two are?
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. My femininity is all borderline drag I guess. But the effort that goes into it is erotic for me. And again, the mastery of things that are difficult, it’s kind of like a ballet fetish, because ballet is so strenuous and challenging and hard on your body and you really have to work for it, it makes it so much hotter. And that’s kind of my approach to femininity because I have to work on my body and hair and nails and wear these shoes that are challenging and wear outfits that are challenging. I feel like I’ve overcome something to become this person.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
A way to reach God in transcendence, suffering for the femme God, it’s an offering. I love that.
Daisy Ducati:
Also, femme rituals can also be self-care. Like I spend time caring for myself and it’s something that people can’t do for me, I guess. I have to spend time getting dressed and getting ready and putting myself together and putting on my Daisy drag I guess. And it’s a ritual.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Definitely. I am totally here for the ritual of getting ready for work or a scene, and it is definitely something that helps me hold the space as well as the process of taking it off and like slinking into a bath afterwards. Yeah, I definitely think about applying femme armor to like, embody power for sure.
Daisy Ducati:
I’ll even put on perfume before I get on cam, just to get into the headspace of it. I have perfume in my makeup kit because it’s just a part of my getting ready even if I’m not going anywhere. And even if no one will smell me, I know that I’m ready.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Amazing. I am scent sensitive and also just love the way I naturally smell. I will wear deodorant with shooting with people if it is needed. But my preference would be like, you’re going to fucking like how this smells and now bring your head right here and we’ll be good.
Daisy Ducati:
Pheromones are important too.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Pheromones are so important. What you were saying about ballet is so interesting. One of my favorite session inquiries that I’ve ever gotten, which then turned into be one of my favorite submissives that I’ve ever played with, was from this woman who I asked about kink history and she was basically like, “I don’t really have a kink history, but I used to dance point and would refuse to wrap my feet because I liked the pain. I think I might be a masochist.” And I was like, “Oh my god, I just came just from reading your inquiry” I was so flustered and I was like, okay, great.
Daisy Ducati:
I will say I have never met a ballerina who’s not a masochist.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Oh, a hundred percent. And we later did a session where I had suspended her by her hair while she was on point and she was on point for like two and a half hours. And we did a blood scene where we filled her ballet shoes, her old point shoes, up with blood that was just dripping down her while she was in point. Back when Instagram was more generous, I was live streaming some of the sessions. It was amazing. But I was live streaming some of the sessions and people in the comments were like, “Are you sure she’s okay? She’s so quiet.” And she just takes pain so stoically and beautifully in a way only a ballerina could.
Daisy Ducati:
That’s really hot. I’m sad I missed that live.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
When you’re in New York, I’ll get her for us (laughs). And I feel like with ballerinas too, there is this whole ritual of putting on the shoes to embody this persona, and I think the relationship with shoes to like, work with me here while I’m just kind of freestyling, put people into the headspace of a certain type of work. Like it sounds like it would be a torturous scene for you to make you wear flats.
Daisy Ducati:
Actually, I don’t even know if I should probably say this, but I’m going to. I have a client who orders custom videos that is really into shoe dangling, and I love anything to do with feet and shoes. However, the shoes that he likes are the opposite of what I like, the exact opposite. And luckily he was willing to send them to me, so I didn’t have to… They’re like these little kitten heel, (laughs) this little tiny kitten heel and they’re pointy. It’s like what I would consider church shoes. Perfect for the shoe dangling. I understand why he likes them because the way they’re perfect for dangling off your feet and flapping up against your feet, and they were for that specific fetish. But I would absolutely never wear them in public.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
So funny.
Daisy Ducati:
I would rather be barefoot.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I feel like as a domme, it is still to me, even if it’s not my fetish, I find other people’s fetish is so alluring and so interesting. You’re like yeah, this is the perfect shoe for flapping it up and down for 45 minutes in this video that you want me to make. I get that. I’m not going to wear them out of the house, but I totally get and respect that.
I don’t know why I’m thinking about this, but I bottomed for a scene with friends and their primary rule for me was that I wasn’t allowed to take photos, which was like debilitating for me because I have moved through kink spaces so much as a photographer. I was first doing a photo documentary series of the kink place I trained. I wasn’t involved, I was just documenting it. And love the aesthetics of kink, and my background’s also in photography, so being able to photograph it and see play through my lens is such an integral part of play, and it’s always so fun when people let me photograph scenes because it’s deeply intertwined with my kink. And not being able to take photos definitely took away some of my power.
Daisy Ducati:
And it’s interesting how relinquishing a certain fetish or interest is like relinquishing power. Like for me with the shoes, I feel less powerful in less powerful shoes, and so I get it. I don’t feel like my whole self if I don’t fulfill my femme fetish.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Do you have Louboutins?
Daisy Ducati:
I had Louboutins.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I’m curious, like the relationship.
Daisy Ducati:
Right? I enjoy Louboutins. The ones that I had were just a tiny bit too tight, so I ended up giving them to my aunt.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I’ve done that with Louboutins too. People are very grateful when your Louboutins don’t fit you.
Daisy Ducati:
Oh my God, yeah. But I do appreciate the way that Louboutin as a brand leans into the fetishism of shoes. And I think that’s interesting and interesting design. They know where their market is. They know who’s buying these and for what. And I appreciate that and glamorize it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
They are such… I remember when I got my first pair, it was just like, this is a fetish object. And I would keep it on my desk, and it just got too… It was made to be worshiped. And I feel like, I don’t think I really understood the difference in quality of shoes until I had this beautiful worshipful object in front of me and I was like, “Oh shit, I really like that.”
Daisy Ducati:
Christian Louboutin himself is a shoe fetishist. It’s clear.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
So many designers are. Yeah, totally. Those shoes were made to be licked from top to bottom and deep throated in those heels. No other use. They were not made for walking, I’ll say that.
Daisy Ducati:
No, they’re not comfortable. They’re fun, but not comfortable.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah, totally. Did your favorite boots… I’m curious, of all of your shoes that you’ve ever had. Or what was your first pair of boots? That will be what I ask.
Daisy Ducati:
I mean, I’ve kind of always had boots. I think my first pair of fetishy boots that I really understood as a sex thing was working at the Lusty Lady in San Francisco, and I was pretty new to stripping. And one of the cool things about the Lusty Lady is we had a wholesale account with Pleaser, so we could get Pleasers at wholesale price , and I ordered these thigh-high nine inch boots. I put them on and immediately just felt so powerful. And being on stage, especially at a peepshow they’re kind of down below you, like knee level I guess, being able to just tower over those windows where if I walk up to the window, all they see is my boots, was such a powerful feeling.
And when the Lusty Lady closed, we had this big parade/protest because it was a really fucked up situation. But we had a parade down Broadway and it turned out to be a huge, huge thing. Tons of people turned out and we took over all of North Beach pretty much. And I wore these shoes in that parade. And I wore that and a pink glittery bikini and like a funeral hat with the veil and all. And it was fun being in this parade, in this magical moment of the community in the midst of a shitty situation and the giant of it and walking down the street in like underwear and nine-inch heels and getting it out.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I definitely have so many visual memories of marching with folks in nine-inch heels and just, yeah, it’s such a striking and powerful image.
Daisy Ducati:
And it was amazing. It was incredible. I still have those shoes too. I don’t wear them outside anymore, but they’re indoor shoes now.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Well, I feel like most of my shoes are indoor shoes. Most of my shoes are bedroom shoes, let’s be honest. But I also love good work boots too, that are a little bit more practical and a little bit more for me every day. I don’t wear heels every day.
Daisy Ducati:
I definitely, not necessarily for me to wear, but I really enjoy a good military boot, like the leather paratrooper boots. That’s hot, to me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah, that’s so hot. I just like cruise anyone who’s wearing good boots. Just my eyes immediately. It’s like flagging, boots. I just wear them. Yeah, I’m getting flustered thinking about this.
Daisy Ducati:
I’m actually looking to order a pair.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
What kind are you looking to order?
Daisy Ducati:
The leather paratrooper boots.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yes. I know I spent the last few days just looking at shoes online. Prada has a pair of those boots that I’m obsessed with that come up to the knee and they have these cute little pouches on the side that are really fun. If anyone’s listening to this and wants to get me those boots, I still don’t have them in my collection. Sounds like Daisy might like them too.
Daisy Ducati:
Yes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Yeah. A good stomping boot. I like a good boot that I can do a kick down in, like a solid stomping in.
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. I really enjoy boots that look dangerous. One of my favorite pairs of boots that I haven’t been able to wear in a while because they need some repairs are these Jeffrey Campbell, they’re like cowboy boots, but they have these strap down them that have spikes. They’re different colors of gray, they’re kind of wasteland looking. I wore those almost every day when I lived in San Francisco. And they go with pretty much anything that I would wear. So they’re perfect, but they need some repairs done.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I love a dangerous boot. I like the ones where… I love metal heels on boots because it reminds me of urethral sounds, and just so fun to suck a cold metal rod down your throat. I saw these, I just posted these on Twitter. I shouldn’t be talking about that. No filter. But they have little salt pepper shakers on them. They’re actually very ugly, but I would totally keep them and just go around dosing people who are into feet. If you don’t have a foot fetish now, you will after this.
Daisy Ducati:
Oh man.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I love giving people foot fetishes.
Daisy Ducati:
A fun little fact, standard Pleaser heels you can put a dildo on the heel, by the way.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Have you done that before?
Daisy Ducati:
Yeah. A scene, I think there’s a couple of scenes actually on my Clips4Sale store where… So I have this fan that I’ve had for years, and he has funded at least half my shoe collection and he’s amazing and we have the same taste in shoes. He really, really likes stripper shoes. He likes stripper shoes. And so he would order a ton of customs with strap-on and stripper shoes and enjoyed getting creative with that. And I did a couple of strap-on group scenes with nine, 10-inch heels and dildos on the heels and it was so much fun.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
So fun. What would be your favorite clip or shoot that you’ve shot somehow involving boots?
Daisy Ducati:
I think I’ve done a couple of clips with worshiping the Prada boots. Those are fun. Definitely the used dildo gang bang situations. I’ve done a couple of those and those were really fun, wild scenes. Some of my best.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Amazing. I had my foot sub, who I am obsessed with, who has seen me for numerous years, was moving out of the country and I threw him a goodbye party with 14 other dommes and we were playing party games as one does at the foot going away party. And we were playing party games and he kissed everyone’s feet once and introduced himself. They introduced themselves to him and shared their name. And the second go around he was blindfolded and we all switched positions and he guessed every single person’s foot correctly. And I’m like, I didn’t even know two of the people’s names who were there. I was like, “You’re doing better at this than I am.” And I can see people’s faces, I’m just so terrible with names. But his attention to the specifics of each individual foot just blew me away.
Daisy Ducati:
That’s beautiful.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
I was like aw, that made me so proud. Oh man. Well, I could talk to you about boots all day, but I want to make sure, is there anything else about boots or domming that you want to make sure is included as part of this conversation?
Daisy Ducati:
So if anyone would like to buy me boots, I’m size nine. I like heels over six inches. I definitely enjoy platforms.
Mistress Danielle Blunt:
Okay. Well thank you so much for taking the time to join me for this chat. My boot desires, if anyone wants to buy me boots, go to mistressblunt.com and you can follow me on my social media. Until next time!
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