Power has always been my first and truest love, far more intoxicating than conventional desire. What draws me to you is not merely who you are on the surface, but how you surrender your power: the exquisite way you drop to your knees, acquiesce control, let me bring you to the edge of what you can bear for my amusement. How you beg me to break you so I can show you how strong you are. How you find ecstasy in serving my pleasure; how eager you are to be of use to me.
I discovered this love of power (and my latent sadism) at eighteen, and quickly began formal training as a dominatrix at an old-guard BDSM chateau in upstate New York. There, immersed in Femdom and the intricate art of power exchange, I found my true calling. For over 15 years I’ve honed my craft, embracing timeless protocols while releasing those which no longer serve me. Unbound by the chains of convention, I’ve found that I’m happiest in the role of dominant GFE. Intuitive by nature, I read desires – particularly the hidden ones you guard most closely – with uncanny ease, planting seeds that unfurl into devastating beauty.
Outside of kink, my world is richly interdisciplinary. Holding multiple advanced degrees and numerous fellowships, I pursue knowledge with relentless curiosity, working at the intersection of tech, community organizing, and public health. As co-founder of Hacking//Hustling, I received the 2020 Barlow Pioneer Award from the EFF for my advocacy work. My creativity is fueled through writing, making art, and teaching BDSM workshops worldwide. You may have come across me in one of my many public appearances – I’ve lectured at all of the Ivy-league universities and have been recognized as a leading expert in my features in Psychology Today, Vice, Glamour, Hustler, Buzzfeed, and more.
This background has granted me the luxury of profound selectivity. I maintain a small and fiercely devoted harem of collared submissives, several of whom are prominent figures in their own realms. I firmly believe in quality over quantity, and this is visible in my choice of partners; everyone I play with is strictly vetted. Our dynamics are rooted in potent chemistry, deep mutual respect, and above all else, an unshakable trust. While I have the privilege of selectiveness, I cherish the opportunity to play with novices… especially individuals who’ve been waiting and watching from afar. Many have noted that I’m remarkably down to earth and not as intimidating as I first seem.
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D/s and leather are not just roles I perform; they’re my lifestyle. I live and breathe them. High-protocol training is sacred to me: I’ll mold you into someone capable of delivering precise, elegant service both in public and in private. Sessions with me may feel therapeutic or healing, though I am neither therapist nor healer. I simply hold space for your innate capacity to transform through ritual, subspace, and intentional power play. As a certified yoga instructor and full-spectrum doula, I often craft self-care regimens for my submissives, insisting that you care for yourself as diligently as you serve me. After all, you belong to me now… wouldn’t you treat what’s mine with reverence?
A session with me is never formulaic; it’s co-created art. Every detail of our scene – the lighting, the scent of my leather, the cadence of my voice – is curated for immersion. When the door clicks shut, you cross into my realm: bound by my rules, extended as an expression of my will, forever marked.
If you ache to kneel at the edge of the bed, flustered and devoted, desperate to please – approach with genuine respect. I will teach you exactly where you belong. And you’ll find profound peace there.
I am beyond what you could have dreamed. I assure you, you will not be the same.
Ready to surrender?
BY THE NUMBERS
- Height: 5’5”
- Age: 30’s
- Dress size: S
- Pant size: 2-4
- Bra size: 30DD
- Shoe size: 6.5
- Home location: NYC + Upstate New York
- Frequent travel destinations: DC, Boston, West Palm Beach, LA
Interested in treating me? My wishlist is a good place to start.
HOW TO MEET ME
First off: familiarize yourself with my style of domination. You can find deeper dives on my blog, Substack newsletter, Bluesky social media, LoyalFans fansite, and clip store.
After you have a better understanding of my approach, please fill out my submissive application form to request an initial meeting or virtual coffee date.