Jo Munroe and I discuss her early days on Reddit, the woes of being on TikTok as a sex worker, and the kinky parts of being a girl next door.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Hello, I am here today with Jo. My name is Danielle Blunt. I am a professional dominatrix, an OnlyFans dominatrix who trains kinky subs in my DMs on OnlyFans. And I’m here today with Jo. Would you like to introduce yourself, Jo?
Jo Munroe: Yes. Hello everybody. My name is Jo Munroe. I am 25 years old. I’m from Northern Ireland. I am an OnlyFans model slash content creator. I’m a solo creator. So I just do this all on my own and I don’t have any fun or interesting sort of like dominatrix side to me. No, I’m very vanilla in comparison, I feel.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah I mean, well, I feel like there’s something kind of kinky about having a prolific amount of nudes online and the voyeuristic and exhibitionist components that is necessitated by online sex work. So I’m sort of curious, when did you start making content and what was that process of you sharing nudes in this exhibitionisty type way?
Jo Munroe: I started almost a year ago, last July. I originally started posting to Reddit and I would post nudes there. I started originally without showing my face. Kind of to test the waters a little bit. I guess I kind of started OnlyFans and posting on Reddit just to see if I could do it. I wanted to see because I was working an office job. I wasn’t getting paid very much. And I was like, oh, I wonder if I could make some extra pocket money basically. And I remember how excited I was when I first started posting on Reddit. And after about a week of posting like things started to pick up a little bit and I would get a sub and I would be like, oh my God I got one whole sub, this is so exciting. Or like your first ever tip, like a $10 tip. And it was like, oh my goodness people are actually willing to pay me to see me naked. This is crazy. So that’s kind of how I started. And then in August, September, it got to the point where I had like a good few subs on OnlyFans. And I was like, you know what? I think I’m ready to take the next step. I think I want to show my face and see how that goes too. Then I started posting face content on OnlyFans only. And I remember that was so nerve wracking. Like I think the first thing that I did was a little competition for my subs where it was like a light competition so I got them to go back and like all of my posts. And then a random number generator, I did that and picked a name out of a hat basically. And the person that I picked got to see my face first. And I remember sending them the photo and I was so nervous, but he was so, so nice about it. And he was like, you have nothing to worry about. You’re so beautiful. And I was like, oh thank you. So then after that I started posting my face on OnlyFans and then started posting it on Reddit and Twitter and everything as well. So that was, I guess that’s kind of my journey which I started off very basic. I was like, oh, I’ll never post fully nude on Reddit. So I posted boobs only or something. And then you kind of start taking steps further and further as you get more comfortable. And then suddenly I was just posting full nudes, fully spread content online for anybody to see which was probably an interesting thing to do. But yeah, I guess that’s what I did. What about you? How did you get started?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah I started largely with in-person work and OnlyFans for me at the beginning before the pandemic was largely a space to just upload OnlyFans dominatrix content like behind the scenes session footage. I’ve been making clips for years so it was a place to send out the clips and share what I had been making and what I’d been doing in my personal life and in the sessions that I was doing. And in the pandemic, when I stopped seeing people in person it became this platform for people to sort of come to me to start exploring some of their kinks and their fetishes. So it was what, I found really interesting during the pandemic is that I feel like so many people were missing intimacy and physical touch and, I feel like–
Jo Munroe: A connection as well.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah and pre-pandemic as well. I feel like we live in a society that connection is really hard. And I think it became a really lovely place to build this connection with people and what I found from my subs which I find so interesting that vanilla models call their fans subs because subscribers but also it’s shorthand for submissives.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. There was a little bit of confusion there.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I was so confused when like the first few months of the pandemic when I was seeing very vanilla models talking about their subs, I was like, how are they finding you? That’s amazing. But I noticed that for a lot of people it was like both the intimacy and the connection that people were having a hard time finding as well as finally having time to sit with yourself and think about what you’re actually interested in sexually. And for folks who are interested in different things and might have sort of just gotten by the casual sex that they were having with partners or their wives, I think it became harder to deny what they were into. So I had a lot of people exploring with me for the first time. And I feel like that’s probably true for people who do GFE style OnlyFans or the girl next door OnlyFans that there’s a market pick up of people really wanting to explore their sexualities with a one-on-one dynamic with some of them.
Jo Munroe: Absolutely. I think that’s why OnlyFans became so popular right? There was obviously you’ve got sites like PornHub or like ManyVids and that’s fine. You can find what you need there but you’re not getting the same connection. There isn’t a one-to-one chat with the model that you’ve just been watching. I think that’s…I don’t know if you get these messages as well but sometimes someone will message me and I’ll reply and then they’ll reply and be like, oh my God I wasn’t expecting you to reply to me. And it’s like, well, this is what I’m here for. I’m here for you to talk to me. Do you find that you get that kind of message a lot as well?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think less so. And I’m not sure if it’s just my automated response, when people subscribe I ask people to introduce themselves in a really specific way. But yeah people are surprised when there’s a thoughtful response behind.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. It’s not just like AI or a bot. It’s actually you messaging them back.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah I think that’s, what’s so interesting about OnlyFans is that, also so much of porn is free and so many of us have issues with leaked images and all of this bullshit, but what you can never replicate and what AI will not be able to replicate is the one-on-one intimacy that you can share with developing a relationship with someone overtime.
Jo Munroe: Knowing that there’s a human on the other side of the screen, who’s talking back to you. You can’t replace that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah and I think that that’s… I think it’s something that’s been missing from mainstream porn. I think it provides a more dynamic and robust understanding of the performer and what happens in a sex scene and how porn shoots aren’t necessarily a reflection of the actual sex that most people are having real life and that these positions are just, a lot of these positions are just largely for the camera angle and things like that.
Jo Munroe: Yeah exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: But yeah. What has been your favorite part of creating content for OnlyFans and figuring out your flow or what you… What kind of subscribers do you like to have?
Jo Munroe: I think my favorite part is kind of not only just posting porn or solo sort of masturbation or whatever. But it’s the, what I find funny is sometimes I’ll post little vlog videos and people will comment and be oh, I love this. I love hearing about your day. I love hearing. So again, it’s that connection. It’s them feeling like they know you. I think that’s been so super surprising to me. And funnily enough, another thing I was talking about the other day, whenever I posted on Reddit I was posting naked content there. And so I felt like I always had to kind of one up myself on my OnlyFans. I always had to go above and beyond to make sure that the Reddit subscribers who’d already seen me naked were getting their money’s worth. But now that I don’t post any free naked content online, I find that there’s so many people who joined my site and they asked me for more clothed pictures and oh, that’s been so strange to me. Because I’m like, are you not… Are you guys not here to see me naked? So that’s been very surprising to me or lingerie pictures or things like that. In my head, I was like, these guys just want to see me naked. They want to see me, doing stuff naked. That’s all they want but it actually surprised me a lot that people have I guess, they don’t want to just see you naked. They want to see you either behind the scenes in your personal life or they want to see you dressed up how you look on a day to day and then contrast it with the nakedness. That’s been very interesting, that facet.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s interesting too, because I feel like in Pro Domme spaces and professional domination spaces and even on OnlyFans dominatrix spaces a lot of Dommes don’t get naked and it’s the lack of nudity that becomes eroticized. And I think there’s a lot of stigma that’s associated with it and whore-phobia that’s associated with it with who gets naked and who doesn’t. And I get naked because I like to be naked. But I think the clothed female naked male, CFNM or whatever the acronym is, is a fetish where people really love seeing women clothed while they’re there nude. And I’m not sure, I think it sounds more like your subscribers are interested in seeing all facets of Jo, but I think that that’s an interesting thing too. The power dynamic and vulnerability of being nude in front of someone who is still wearing clothes and just I feel like clothes can be so sexy.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. They can be totally. I also short skirts or dresses, there’s something very erotic about that, like a peek of an ass cheek or some cleavage, it can be sometimes more erotic than just like stripping all off and being naked. You’re kind of hinting towards things. I do get it, but it just did surprise me a little bit. Can I ask you a question about your work actually?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah of course.
Jo Munroe: How long have you been doing, being a domme basically?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah I was interested in it my whole life and I began exploring it at 18. I found when I was in college I found this house of kink that I went to and they trained me to be a dominatrix. I trained as a submissive and I was going to like frat parties one weekend. And then the next weekend I was going to kinky orgies with five course meals and a hundred, a couple hundred dollars bottles of wine and a submissive making lavender cookies, lounging on like sheepskin rugs. And I was just like this is much more interesting to me than chugging a 40. It became very boring to me very quickly.
Jo Munroe: That’s so cool.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: So I found it and it was just because a friend of a guy that I was fucking was like your man talks. And from what I hear, you’re a kinky bitch. And these people came and gave a talk to my human sexuality class at college. And I think you should know about it.
Jo Munroe: Wow. That’s so cool. So you’re basically classically trained.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. That’s how I trained. Yeah, like old guard. If you read kink-Literotica Story of Ode type, there are still some abuses of power, like in many spaces of mentorship and places without accountability. But overall I had a very positive experience and took what I wanted from this space. So it was something that I was exploring in my personal life. And then I had a job in the production unit of a TV show and was not making a lot or enough money. And I was oh, I can do this professionally. And I realized when I was 22 that I could make what I made in a month in five hours. And I was like, well fuck, I can never have a civilian job again.
Jo Munroe: No, no. I was starting to feel that as well. You realize how undervalued you were in your previous jobs. You would spend like 40 hour weeks, doing your work and you would still be getting paid pennies but then yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Now we have 80 hour weeks.
Jo Munroe: Yeah exactly. You spend a lot. I’m never off my phone honestly, but it feels like because you’re working for yourself as well. It feels more worth it. It’s not being skimmed off the top by someone who’s higher up in management, it’s you’re earning your own money. And I think, yeah, the first time I actually earned my wage from, I just couldn’t believe it. And then whenever I was working in an office, I was like I’m doing this at the same time. I was just like, no, I can’t do this anymore. I need to just–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s frustrating you put up with way less.
Jo Munroe: Exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: When you realize you’re being under compensated for your labor. It’s interesting too. I feel like with OnlyFans, I feel like as a dominatrix on OnlyFans, I can like very bluntly, if you will, direct people to tip in a way that feels it’s compensating my labor. And I’m curious how you navigate that with your fans as kind of like a girl next door.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. That’s a good question actually, it can be hard. I find that my tips kind of come in a bit more passively. I never asked for them. I think the only time that I’ve ever asked for tips of any sort would be for a campaign. So there was a campaign that I ran for a full length mirror because I wanted to take mirror pictures or I did a campaign for a weighted blanket.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love that.
Jo Munroe: And people and I had oh, anyone who contributes to my campaign, I’ll send you a story. So I write erotic stories as well on my OnlyFans. I do mostly custom work. And I wrote a little story for this weighted blanket campaign. And then–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Was it about the weighted blanket?
Jo Munroe: Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love this.
Jo Munroe: The scene was like my weird blanket arriving and me unboxing it. And then I fell asleep under my blanket. And then like you, the guy who’s obviously reading the story, he like comes in and snuggles in behind me and then we ended up having sex. So that was kind of the plot of the story.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That sounds really kinky to me.
Jo Munroe: Does it?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. And I will tell you why if you’re interested because I’ll–
Jo Munroe: Go for it. Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I actually use weighted blankets in bondage sessions because it does something very similar to your autonomic nervous system when you’re willingly confined. Whether it be in like a mummification bag or in bondage with your hands tied behind your back, it often gives the response of slowing down your autonomic nervous system and kind of forcefully putting you into this state of rest and relaxation.
Jo Munroe: Wow.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And so weighted blankets have a very similar effect on the nervous system that people like who are in bondage feel in like a subspace or an altered state of consciousness through like a kinky D/s dynamic which I feel like also people in vanilla sex like when it’s very connected and attuned can get to that similar flow state. But yeah, I think weighted blankets are super kinky and I often would put them over people when they’re in bondage and they just melt back.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. There’s something so relaxing about it. I never realized that there was like a kink for that. That’s so cool.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. That’s very funny.
Jo Munroe: So fun.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. And I also feel like the partner is kind of sneaking in while, maybe you’re sleeping. I feel like so much of this is just my theory. I feel like as long as you’re communicating about what you want and what you like it’s not necessarily vanilla. If for me kink is about enthusiastically getting what you want and asking for it and naming it.
Jo Munroe: Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And I feel like writing Literotica is such a great way to share those ideas with people.
Jo Munroe: Explore that as well. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. But yeah. Sorry back to your question about the tips. I don’t think so, yeah. I don’t think I ever really asked for tips. Most people kind of just offer it. I would love there to be a way where I could say tip me. And that would be part of how I come across. But unfortunately, I don’t think that would work for me as well as it would work for you, because I think obviously they, your subs do like being told what to do. So you can get away with that. Whereas I feel like most of the people who joined my page probably are men who are a bit more dominant maybe. Because I would be naturally a bit more submissive. I can kind of do a little bit of both like in my own personal life but I think I come across more submissive online. And so I kinda, I get a lot of men who would be a bit more dominant. So they don’t, I couldn’t boss them and tell them to tip me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel like there’s convoluted ways. Because I do it mostly for sexting sessions. Oh, in order to continue this exchange, I need X, Y and Z. This is what a sexting package costs. If you want to keep chatting and keep it going on. But I love that you write Literotica for your fans. I actually have a submissive task on my OnlyFans page right now for people to write Literotica for me because I love reading it. And on my blog at mistressblunt.com/i think blog, I have a collection of submissive written fantasies about me. And I feel–
Jo Munroe: That’s so cool.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s really fun. And I think it’s like a really great way to understand what someone is thinking about and what they’re focusing on. And it gives me so much information, whether or not they’re meaning to reveal that information, but about the kind of things that they’re thinking about.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. Yeah. I totally get you. It was all sort of along the same vein, although I didn’t ask for this, I remember I got a message on Reddit at one point and it was like a 2000 word erotica about this guy that he’d written about me. I don’t know if this is a copy and paste. He wrote this and then sent it to every girl that he likes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Copy paste Jo.
Jo Munroe: But either way… Yeah exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Replace all.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. But he, yeah, he wrote this long erotica about me meeting him down in the basement where the laundry was in our apartment block and we ended up having sex. And I remember reading through it and being that’s such a weird thing to send to someone who didn’t ask for it. Like at least you should ask for it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I know it’s very different when you, it’s very different when you ask for it for sure.
Jo Munroe: Yeah because then when you’re reading it you’re like oh, this is great. This is exactly what I wanted you to do. But whenever you get out of the blue, it’s like, oh that you’ve written that about me without me even knowing that’s so strange. I don’t know. It felt weird.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That’s a consent thing, it’s like some of the things are hot when it’s what you want and asked for. And if the same thing happens, it’s like getting a dick pic.
Jo Munroe: Yes, exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes, I want you to send me a dick pic. That sounds hot versus look at my dick.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. Oh, I hate that. Getting a dick pic that has just come out of the blue. Sometimes they’ll send it as the first message that they send you. And you’re just I don’t want to see that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: What are they thinking?
Jo Munroe: I don’t know. I’ve never ever wanted to send a nude of myself to someone without there being any prior, talk about sex or sexting or anything. I’ve never done that to someone just off the bat, they very much wanted the nude but I don’t understand how men think, oh, she really wants to see my dick even though we’ve never spoken before. I know that this is what she wants.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Do you think it’s, I think she wants to see my dick or I want to show her my dick because I feel like it has nothing to do with if they were thinking about what you wanted. It would be like a tip.
Jo Munroe: Yeah, exactly exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Or an introduction or something.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. No you’re so right. It’s more of a, I’m going to show her than she wants to see this. Yeah, no, I get you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Totally. Yeah. One thing I’m also curious about is that people viewing this from my fan page might not know this but Jo has an amazing ass.
Jo Munroe: Oh thank you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: One of the best asses which I think gets her removed from TikTok just as my breasts get me removed from TikTok. Quite sad.
Jo Munroe: It’s very sad.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s so frustrating. When you were talking about the little up skirt shorts and being sexier in clothing. One thing I was thinking of is like I bought a whole new wardrobe for TikTok. It’s so dumb.
Jo Munroe: Same same. I have more TikTok clothes than normal clothes now. I would never wear them outside.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I wouldn’t even wear them for the porn that I make.
Jo Munroe: No, no it’s a very specific type of clothing that you can kind of get away with on TikTok that you wouldn’t wear anywhere else.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel like that the whole clothing brand idea we could come up with, how to evade the TikTok algorithm for sex workers.
Jo Munroe: Yes, exactly. That’s a genius idea.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: According to our calculations, it says a 95% chance of staying up based on your ratio.
Jo Munroe: Absolutely. Yeah. I think we have the knowledge for that.. I could look at an outfit and be like that will be removed.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Maybe we should do this.
Jo Munroe: Maybe we should.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Coming up in three months.
Jo Munroe: Our TikTok clothing collection. Totally. Yeah, definitely.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love that. And anyways, back to the most important topic: your ass.
Jo Munroe: Obviously.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’m curious, I have been speaking to some folks who are more like GFE style or girl next door style. And I’m interested in kind of where the kinks pop up in those dynamics. Because I feel like something that I find really interesting and I do fem dom GFE type things but that people sometimes feel less intimidated by the girl next door to share a kink, rather than some people want an experienced dom who will tell them what to do. And some people want the girl next door to–
Jo Munroe: That they can confide in.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Figure it out and figure it out together. This is new for you too. But I’m curious about ass worship because just based on my mental calculations, I feel like you must be getting a lot of requests for ass worship.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. And like, I honestly, at this point I don’t even really know what ass worship means. If you want to tell me what you know about it. I’ll tell you okay, that’s fair. But I do get a lot of people who join specifically because of my ass posts back in the day, Reddit or on Instagram, like I have a few ass pictures or videos up and those are instant thousands of likes. Because it’s like, you know, people are hungry for it. It’s crazy. I remember when I was younger, I used to be so self-conscious about how I looked and like my body shape. And it’s just so funny now that this is how I make my money. You know what–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That shift is so interesting.
Jo Munroe: So yeah, I do get a lot of people who like to join in. They’re like, oh my God, your ass is amazing. I wish I could see more of your ass blah, blah, blah. But I feel, yeah, the ass worship I think would be a big thing if I knew what it was and how to offer it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Should we do an ass worship mini workshop?
Jo Munroe: Oh like a tutorial, yes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: A two minute tutorial.
Jo Munroe: Yes absolutely.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I mean, mine, my MO is I think of people’s fetishes as like an entry point to their sexuality. And for people interested in exploring control as a way to control and train someone to my desires. And so I get a lot of 2D worship requests and a ton of mommy stuff, which I love personally, love being consensually, mom ified. Instead of just like everyone expecting free emotional labor from women in general. But I would say ass worship is taking like one of your assets that makes someone feel weak and like overcome with desire and playing with that desire and kind of teasing it apart because for some people I think they’re like, oh yeah, I like ass. And then for some people, I think they’re like I have an ass fetish and ass is what I want to worship. And like, I want to be forced to like start at the bottom of your feet, to gently kiss all the way up while you tease me with the ass. And it’s this big hypnotic reward like this mountain that you’ve ascended and finally reached transcendence and get to worship at the altar of a god.
Jo Munroe: Yeah okay cool.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah.
Jo Munroe: That’s interesting. That seems like it would be a lot of fun.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s really fun. Because I feel like it gets, you get to see people’s desire mount. And I think it’s really just, it’s like teasing and denial and making them kind of work for it a little bit. So like, I would and just listening to what about it that they and face sitting, I feel like is also probably a huge request and also really hot and can have some elements of power dynamics and that too. But I think of it kind of like worshippy type sessions for any body part. I get a lot of foot worship fetish sessions. I have very good feet. Dommes always compliment my feet, which makes me feel just like I have above industry standard.
Jo Munroe: You’re like peer reviewed feet.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes my peer reviewed feet, thank you. 10 out of 10 Dommes agree.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. That’s amazing. Yeah you’re so lucky. I hate my feet. My feet are so gross.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’m sure people like your feet. I think that’s one thing online sex work has taught me is like whatever you’re self-conscious about is someone else’s fetish.
Jo Munroe: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. No people do like my feet, which I don’t understand. I don’t have anything. I don’t have any desire to see feet so I don’t personally understand it but if they want to like my feet, that’s totally cool with me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel like I didn’t think about it until people were overcome with desire for this body part. And then I would get foot massages and I’m like wow, this is really central and sensitive. There’s so many nerves in my feet. I really started to understand this, but I think of it just like worship as you would a god. And I think that’s what a lot of worship type body worship sessions are, is like becoming so overwhelmed with the beauty of something that you’re obsessed with and the distance of how unattainable it is. And maybe slowly being able to crawl closer to getting what you want and the beauty and sublime nature of your ass.
Jo Munroe: I love the way you’ve described that. I totally get it now. I’m like oh, wow. Yeah. Okay. I’m there. I’m there with you. I’m there. That’s so cool.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. I feel like it can, it can be so fun to tease things apart and add layers.
Jo Munroe: Hmm mhh yeah. Sometimes I feel like such a newbie to all of this because obviously I’ve only really been doing it for a year. So I love listening to people who have done this for so much longer than I have. Have all this expert knowledge. I just want to drink it all in, so good.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Drinking the expert ass worship ness.
Jo Munroe: Yes exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: But I feel like it’s something that I’ve learned. And I also just feel so much of heteronormative vanilla sex is deeply kinky if you think about it. It’s just the power dynamic that’s expected. A little hand on the throat A little bit of a hard fuck. A little bit of a hair pull.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s called kinky if I’m doing that to a guy.
Jo Munroe: But not the other way around.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That’s vanilla sex for most people. They’re not negotiating it or talking about it, but I feel like one thing that I’ve learned more and more in kink spaces is any activity can be done from a top or a bottom or a Dom or a submissive experience. So like having someone more dominant worship your ass as an act of care or you offering that to a daddy type or something like that. I feel like it can be done in so many of those ways or wearing this cute skirt so someone gets to see your ass because that’s what they like.
Jo Munroe: Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It doesn’t have to be like you will worship me because I am a god.
Jo Munroe: Yeah it can come from every sort of perspective. That’s really cool. I like that. I think I’ll have to look into that a bit more because I love what you’ve just described to me. So I’m like, yeah. I’ll just write that bit down.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. Yeah. Well, I guess so I’m curious too, what kind of kinks have you found people curious about exploring with you as more of like a GFE style or a girl next door OnlyFans maker?
Jo Munroe: Whenever I was posting a lot on Reddit, there was a sub-Reddit called like breeding material where I post a lot. Because I’ve got quite a curvy figure. So I have big hips and big boobs and a big whatever. So a lot of people liked that sort of breeding material. I honestly hate that sort of–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: So much of Reddit I hate.
Jo Munroe: I know it’s so gross to just put people in these boxes. I hate it, but unfortunately it works. So that’s where I posted. Because that was my body type. So I have a lot of people who would join my OnlyFans who were interested in that whole like, Ooh I want to breed you. And take you from behind and I want to do this and all this. So I would get that quite a lot. That would probably be the most common. And then a lot of my subs to be a little bit more on the dominant side than they would be submissive. There was a guy I remember who joined my OnlyFans, around last year. So I was kind of still extremely new to everything. And I wasn’t sure where my expertise played or I was kind of trying everything was basically what I was doing. And he came to me and he told me that he was like a sissy and he wanted me to send him custom pictures of me holding up my underwear as if I’m trying to get him to put it on it. And I’ve never done anything like that before. So I was like, okay, I’ll do that. And then there was another guy who asked for a custom video and he wanted me to send him a video as if I was his female best friend. Who’d woken up one day from being a flat chested, non-curvy body type and woken up the next day as if I’d just gone through puberty. And I’d like suddenly grown all my assets and was FaceTiming him to tell him all about it and showing him, I don’t know, I don’t know if that’s even kinky, but it felt like,that sort of transformative change felt a bit kinky to me than what people would normally ask for. I get a lot of people who, and I don’t know that I don’t think this is kinky so much as just something that people like the idea of but because I have glasses and curly hair and I look quite normal I get a lot of, oh, you’re a librarian. So I did a librarian PPV, as if I was in the library and they were renting a book from me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You have the Dewey Decimal System.
Jo Munroe: Yeah exactly. Making it really sexual. But yeah, I get that. And then there’s some people who just kind of come out of left field. They request stuff that I’ve never done and probably won’t ever do because it’s not within my wheelhouse. I don’t think I could do it properly. So peeing content or scat content or I remember one of the first things that I got asked for was queefing. A queefing PPV which I wouldn’t even know where to start with. How do you do that on–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Intentionally.
Jo Munroe: Yeah or like farting or burping? Or there was one guy who asked me for a picture of me sticking out my stomach and eating a lot of food. So I had a really bulgy sort of bloated stomach. And then he sent me to these sub-Reddit’s for reference points for what he likes. And I’d never heard of that before. I didn’t know that that was a thing that people the whole stuff–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah feeding.
Jo Munroe: Yeah feeding exactly. I think those are kind of things that I get sometimes. And then you sometimes get people who maybe come to you for a dick rating and they want small penis humiliation, some very few want that from me. Most people who come to me and I ask for a dick pic, they want complimentary or honest but nice.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Sexy sexting.
Jo Munroe: Yeah, yeah, pretty much.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah honest but nice. I go for a brutally honest approach.
Jo Munroe: For every dick rate?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Honestly mostly what I critique is people’s lighting and composition people take horrible dick pics. I don’t, I am a size queen but I can also make use of anything. So I don’t think sexuality or genitalia it’s not dependent on your genitalia. It’s just like a very limiting perspective of sex to me. There’s so much more that sex can be. So like, I think it’s rarely even in like small penis humiliation clips, I’m rarely that is physically repulsive and more so I’m like you have nothing to offer me in that department. How are you going to compensate for that? Let’s move on next. But it’s usually clean up your background. Get some natural light in there.
Jo Munroe: Oh my God.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Get a better angle.
Jo Munroe: Oh my God.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You can do yourself so much more justice than that. Let me teach you how to take a dick pic.
Jo Munroe: Just don’t I feel like that should be rule number one and it should be ingrained already, but how do people think is acceptable to send a dick pic of them looking down at their dick holding their dick over a toilet.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Over the toilet.
Jo Munroe: Who does that? Why do that? And even worse if there’s gross stuff already in the toilet, I don’t need to see that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Oh God.
Jo Munroe: On top of your dick. My friends who you would know we did like a dick rating, like a collab. So we all like the four of us, we did, we got sent a dick pick and we’d all rate it. And then there would be some like a very small minority that were well shot, really interesting angles and really well done. And then almost all of them were in the bed with a disheveled duvet around them or like dirty clothes or dirty socks or over the toilet, or just really weird angles that don’t make their dicks look nice anyway, why would you take it from that angle? I don’t understand. And it’s funny when you contrast that with the stuff that people like us would produce, produce very high quality nudes, good stuff that you want to see. And then you look at the dick pics that we receive in contrast to that. And you’re like, oh my God, they have no idea. They have no idea–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: How to take a good dick pic is an important skill. If you will be sending dick pics. And I think it’s true too. It’s like, I take a lot of shitty nudes. Dude I just don’t share them.
Jo Munroe: Exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I have the common sense not to share them.
Jo Munroe: Yeah exactly. There was a separate reddit that I remember finding last year that a girl had created for those kinds of blooper nudes. I had been trying to do this yoga pose, you know? So like a downward doggy sort of thing. And there was one of the pictures I took and you could see my face upside down between my legs. And I’m just, beetroot red and my glasses are up here and I’m just like, I look so disgusting. But I posted it there, but I wouldn’t post it anywhere else. Because–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’m thinking of the last sub-Reddit that’s like– They want this angle. Right here.
Jo Munroe: But you can see all of the worst parts of you at the same time. Because it’s the way you bend your body. There’s rolls everywhere. And your boobs are falling into your armpits and you’re trying to smile, but you’ve also got a double chin at the same time. It’s yeah. That one’s a hard one to master.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I want an ad campaign for your worst selfie. (mumbles)
Jo Munroe: People love that though. They love seeing the behind the scenes don’t they?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: The awkwardness. I just think of all of the very specific angles I’m thinking of the bugs bunny TikTok trend. Did you do it successfully? No, I couldn’t do it, my body. I was, so I felt I was being gaslit by all of these hot women.
Jo Munroe: How do these people? My legs weren’t even going behind, I’ve quite long legs.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I know I’m fairly flexible too. And my legs won’t go high enough. My butt won’t go high enough.
Jo Munroe: No nobody’s seeing anything from this angle.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And I couldn’t find tutorials. It just looked so easy for other people.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. And then I tried to do it on my bed at the same time. I think what I did wrong was I was doing it on my bed when you should have been doing it on a hard floor with a blanket and then like you can pull your knees up. Whereas I was trying to do it on like a soft duvet on my bed. So there was no surface to kind of roll up your knees to pull them so that they could slide rather than forcing them up. I didn’t try again though. Because I was, that was just such a colossal failure that I just can’t I’m not not gonna try it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I felt the same. I was like, I give up, like I don’t. I feel like so much of my TikTok presence is pretending to be a bottom and then duping people when they find my OnlyFans because all of the more explicitly dominant content that I make gets taken down immediately. I do the same trends. This guy said he wanted to hang out with me.
Jo Munroe: Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: But blah, blah, blah, bonded. And I was like, but what about if I’m the top? And it just like got immediately taken down. I’m like, it’s nothing different than–
Jo Munroe: No no.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Other than I’m the one doing it.
Jo Munroe: That’s so strange the things that they sometimes take down on TikTok, you’ll do a trend that somebody else has done but because your body shape looks different, it’ll get taken down. Or there’s like some girls who can get away with taking the same video in a bikini and then you’ll take it in like shorts and a t-shirt and it will be taken down. And there’s no set rule as to how explicit or non-explicit you need to be, like sometimes I’ve taken things in a jumper and it still gets taken down. There’s no, I don’t know. It’s so strange, so strange.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: My embarrassing story is that I did not know that TikTok was a safe for work platform. I posted a straight up porn blooper of my dog walking into the set on it. Just like goodbye. It was great. It was a hilarious clip, but it got–
Jo Munroe: Sadly not for TikTok.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It was not for TikTok.
Jo Munroe: My weird thing with TikTok was when I first started, there were a lot of sub-Reddit’s I used to post to that would be like TikTok not safe for work. So you needed to have the TikTok warmer–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I remember that. I got kicked off for that one. Trying to do it.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. So I posted, well, I didn’t actually post. I recorded in my dress a naked sort of transition that I’d done and posted it to private rather than public. So I was like, oh, well I’m safe. It’s just private. And I immediately deleted a con I’m just like, does that mean that they’re looking through everyone’s private videos.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: They are. And I did this on Instagram too. I took like, I was using the camera on Instagram to take a nude and I accidentally posted it, immediately deleted it. And then four hours later I got a warning and lost like random content tools and lost my live streaming abilities for a month. And I’ve been at 1% visibility for discovering for two months. And I’m like, is this it? And I’ve been building the account. I had never really thought of it as building an account because I wasn’t doing online content. It was just like, here is my content but it feels so hard to build at that point after that. And I’m just like, do they do permanent shadow bands? It’s like, I always talk about it as like the specificity and task of being like an online or a sex worker in general because I feel like criminalization also polices people in many, many different ways, but existing in an online space is so challenging.
Jo Munroe: It’s so challenging
Mistress Danielle Blunt: and like challenging to convey who you are, what you want, what you’re selling in this online ecosystem that is you can not say any of this,you can only use innuendo. And if you use too much innuendo and you’re going to go in the bad girl bin.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. You’ll get that removed for sexual solicitation. I think at one time I–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Endangering minors.
Jo Munroe: Yeah and it’s like, but then you’ll see someone. You’ll see someone like the next day and they’ll have their full OnlyFans link in their bio. Posting like bikini pics, topless pictures where you can almost almost see their nipples and they’re fine. And they have two million followers and you’re like–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Because they’re making the platform money. If you’re making the platform money, the rules–
Jo Munroe: They don’t apply.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Don’t apply to you.
Jo Munroe: That’s true.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s so frustrating.
Jo Munroe: Somebody hopes to jump through and even then you can still get booted off.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I do like TikTok more than Reddit though.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. A hundred percent. That’s why I don’t post there anymore. Reddit was fine when it was good. But then after a while I think they removed all the not safe for work sub-Reddit’s from R/All, R/All. So basically like it wasn’t popping up in most people’s feeds anymore. And that you’re only being shown to a small–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: People who are looking for it.
Jo Munroe: Red at night. Yeah, exactly. So it made it a lot more difficult to be visible. And I enjoyed posting on Reddit at the start. I remember whenever I first started doing this I don’t even know how I had the energy, but I’d be spending eight hours a day on Reddit alone, taking nudes posting them and like trying to build up. And then after a while, Reddit kind of shits itself and just decides that it doesn’t want to, care to be not safe for work anymore.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Once you start making money.
Jo Munroe: Yeah, yeah, exactly. They hate that whenever you’re doing it for the money they just hate it. They can’t fathom that you can enjoy it and also do it for the money at the same time.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Or that they should pay for it. They shouldn’t be just given it’s this entitled, this sense of entitlement. I am entitled to your nude body and to make comments on your nude body.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. There was a massive entitlement on Reddit. I think because they already saw you naked. So they’re like, well you’ve already given me everything I wanted. So why would I pay for anything more? And I think that’s such a bad trap to fall into. Isn’t it like where you are constantly having to outdo yourself on your OnlyFans and that’s just no way to live either because I–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Burnout.
Jo Munroe: And then I would be offering stuff on my OnlyFans account I didn’t necessarily want to offer for just my subscription fee, but because I felt bad that I wasn’t offering enough compared to other people you kind of fall into that trap of comparing yourself and thinking, oh, well if they do boy, girl on feed for free well then I must do like I must try and match up.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: There’s so many different ways to run a page. And I feel like whatever you’re comfortable with or works best for you, makes you the most money is the right way to go.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. I agree. Now that I’m kind of doing things the way that makes me feel the most comfortable. I feel comfortable, but also I’m making the most money that I ever did when I was doing things that didn’t make me comfortable. So obviously that’s the right way to go because people can tell when you’re comfortable as well. If you’re open and you’re sharing things openly and you’re happy with that they’ll come across so much better than if you’re just basically forcing yourself to do it which obviously doesn’t come across well.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, definitely. I’m thinking of when I had a custom to use someone’s name in it and it was my dad’s name. And I was like, oh man, I need to not do this ever again. So that’s horrible.
Jo Munroe: Yeah, no I couldn’t do that. Luckily dad’s name is so out of left field that I don’t think anyone would ever know that. No, I couldn’t. God help you for doing that. That’s horrible.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It was very funny. I was like, okay, I’m just going to go with it and then go to therapy. But is there anything else about of your maybe ending with a little favorite moment from–
Jo Munroe: Ooh.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Your experience on only fans? I’d love to hear about.
Jo Munroe: Favorite moment. I feel like there’s been so many. I remember I tweeted about this thing and it didn’t go viral by any stretch of imagination but usually it’s only my pictures that get loads of likes. And for some reason, this fully text tweet got loads of likes but it was basically where I said like in one OnlyFans conversation, I’m talking to someone about the benefits of Buddhism and then in another conversation they’re telling me that they want to fuck me or something like that. And I just find that the contrast of sometimes you get those conversations with people on OnlyFans. That are really meaningful, but they’re not to the point where it’s like emotional labor. I talked to this guy about his religion, Buddhism and his, you know, like past lives and everything. I find it so interesting. And then in your other message, you’ve got someone who’s showing you their dick. The contrast is funny. I’m trying to think of one specific good moment. What about you while I think about it? What’s your favorite moment?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’m thinking about it too. I realized that this question was going to get turned around on me. I think something that’s been really really sweet is I’ve been making a lot of heavy mommy content, mommy fetish content, milf content. I’ve been like turned into a milf since I was like 18 with my chest. But I think being able to provide that like care and intimacy in that capacity to people especially during a pandemic has been really sweet and just like seeing like people respond to being called a good girl or boy and just seeing how much they needed to hear that has been really sweet and seeing how people respond to my voice, I think has been some of the most fun.
Jo Munroe: Do you get a lot of people who are like oh, you have the best voice?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah I feel like people really like audio messages from me. And I feel like one thing I was thinking about with you is you do a lot of lip syncing on TikTok. And so it’s interesting hearing your voice now because you do get people who are like, oh wow. I had no idea that you had an accent.
Jo Munroe: Yeah a lot of people are like, I saw you on TikTok, but then I went to your Instagram and I saw your stories and I heard your accent and I immediately had to join. It’s so funny how many people are like oh my God, she’s Irish. I need to talk to her. They love it. I agree with the audio messages, you’ll send out an audio message or I did my first ever JOI and people loved it because of my accent, even though I hate listening to my own voice, but they loved it. And that’s the only thing that matters. So yeah. Yeah. No, I agree. I’m trying to, I’m still trying to think. I think you can get some really wholesome interactions. I have one person who has been subscribed to me since I started basically. And it’s so nice to see his progression. And I followed, he ended up being one of my moderators on Twitch and I spoke to him sort of off site and I developed–I don’t know if a friendship is the right word–but we talked outside of OnlyFans and it was nice to get to know him off that site as well. And then there was like one guy who joined, who found me on ManyVids. And then I told him that I had an OnlyFans and he came over to OnlyFans and he’s been there since basically the start as well. And he always, every time I post a picture he’ll always send me a $5 tip and then a little cute little joke or a little fun pun related to the posts that he’s tipped me on. And honestly, his message makes my day. Those are the best kind of fans who don’t expect constant conversation or constant attention but will tip you often. And will also try and make you smile. I think those are the really good ones for me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I definitely agree. Yeah I love the ones who will tip on every post and send me a cute thing of what that photo made them feel. I think that’s so sweet.
Jo Munroe: It’s so nice. And it’s such a difference between them and some people who join and they expect the world, they’re rude or they can be mean but then you’ve got like diamond in the rough of these people who are just so nice. And obviously just really appreciate you for you and the content you’re posting. I think my, the one favorite thing to come out of OnlyFans for me is meeting other sex workers through like Discord or through like Telegram and like being able to speak to so many people had never would have interacted with before this line of work. And like, I think before I got into sex work myself, I must’ve had such a narrow way of thinking about it. And I always did support sex workers. I didn’t really know what it meant. It’s so interesting to speak to normal people who have normal jobs who obviously don’t understand at all and then you’ve got such a broad community of sex workers who you know that you can speak to and they’ll fully understand what you’re talking about. It’s so nice to have that space to speak to other people who know exactly what you’re going through or they can tell you, give you advice on things that other people wouldn’t quite understand. I think that’s my favorite part is meeting other creators, other sex workers through this and having friendships and meeting girls as well who I’ve spoken to for months. And I think that, yeah, I think that’s my favorite part for sure.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That must have been such a sweet experience to get to meet.
Jo Munroe: Yeah. Yeah. It was just yesterday. So I met a G and Beachbaby and we just had a lovely time just chatting and you know what we’re doing now, where we’re just talking about our own experiences and having people who just understand, I can’t even express how nice that is. Especially when you’ve got family and friends who obviously know what you do, but they don’t really they don’t know the inside noise of your brain.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: There is still so much stigma.
Jo Munroe: Exactly. And it’s sort of nice to just talk to people who get it. Yeah I love that. And I can’t wait for like, COVID to clear up. Because I’ve got so many people I want to meet. So many places I want to travel. I’m so excited, but yeah. Do you get to meet a lot of people?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I have a very good community of sex workers and I do community organizing and sex worker community spaces. And that’s part of why I wanted to start doing this interview series is or just conversational series because I miss talking to sex workers, it’s such a unique and special type of relationship that civilians or folks who don’t do sex work don’t really understand how to support someone who needs to be supported by community. And in certain instances, and actually I have a really really sweet community of Dommes in New York as well, where we’ll do clothing swaps. Pre-pandemic we were meeting monthly and having an indoor picnic. And it was just talking about our rates and talking about clients and the things that we see coming up and work shopping where things went wrong with clients or how we could have done something but I’m doing skill shares. And I feel like so many other industries have that. And because of the criminalization and stigmatization of sex work, it can be really hard to find and it can be really isolating and then further stigmatizing. So I’m just like so grateful for sex worker friends and community, and to be able to have conversations like this. So thank you so much for chatting with me.
Jo Munroe: Oh, no problem. Thank you for asking me. It’s been so lovely to speak to you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, same. Where can people find you?
Jo Munroe: Okay. So you can find me on OnlyFans.com/tallassgirl. You can find me under that username, basically everywhere. Twitter under slash tallassgirl Instagram under slash tallassgirl. On TikTok you can find me on many accounts. My main one at the minute is CurlyIrishgirl which I feel like–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: How many TikTok accounts are you on right now?
Jo Munroe: Oh my God I have three that are still alive and I have two that have been banned. So I think I’m a total of five. I’m on my fifth TikTok account now. They’re hard to keep track at this point. But yeah, I think those are my main ones. Where else? No, I think that’s mostly it. Sometimes I like Twitch streams and YouTube. I’ve got a YouTube account, a channel but I don’t really use that at the minute. So those are the main places. OnlyFans is where I reply to all my messages and everything. So that’s the best place to find me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: How tall are you?
Jo Munroe: I am five foot eleven.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Tall. A tall ass girl.
Jo Munroe: Tall. A tall ass girl. Yeah it’s funny. A lot of people have messaged me and they’re like oh my God, I thought you were fromTallahassee. .
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I did too from Tallahassee or something like that.
Jo Munroe: I never, when I made that name, I was like, oh this is such a funny little username. Because I was like, is it tallass girl or a tall assgirl? Like, you know, you don’t know? I was like, oh, I’m so hilarious. And then everyone’s just like I thought you were from–
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Tallahassee.
Jo Munroe: Yeah Tallahassee. No, that’s not what it is at all. No yeah. Tall, tall ass girl. I’m five foot 11. It was funny yesterday meeting those other girls because they’re so tiny. They are so small compared to me. I gave them a hug and they came to like here.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I feel like it’s almost that meme of a very tall girl holding a very short girl (mumbles).
Jo Munroe: I feel like I need someone to recreate that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You could do that.
Jo Munroe: Yeah exactly. But yeah. Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love that. And I can be found at OnlyFans.com/mistressblunt. All of my links are at bluntlinks.com and my website where all of these conversations will eventually be archived after we post them to our OnlyFans is mistressblunt.com.