I sat down with one of my subs and let them interview me, rapid fire style. We cover everything from what I enjoy most about sessions and in person play to whether or not I sing in the shower.
Garlic: Hi, everybody. Welcome to this interview session with Mistress Blunt, who is a professional lifestyle dominatrix. Mistress Blunt, thank you for being here today and joining me on this interview.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Thank you so much for having me. It’s such a pleasure to be here. I’m such a fan of your show.
Garlic: Yeah, absolutely. So let’s get our viewers in the loop for a bit, but I’ve been very curious myself. I’ve been an active fan of your work for a while now. And so, hearing all of your interviews with different people, I was curious if anyone ever interviewed you before. And so, thank you for this opportunity to dive deeper into the secrets of you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You’re so welcome.
Garlic: Are you ready?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’m ready. Let’s go. Bring it, give it to me.
Garlic: Okay. I would like to know first and foremost, what’s your life like, like an average day, for mama-licious Blunt?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: For mama-licious Blunt. Okay. So are we speaking pandemic life, or are we speaking like normal, everything’s just normal, bad life?
Garlic: Whatever spirit compels you to speak on.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Pandemic life is a lot more online stuff that I’m doing. So I’m like finding community and also working online, so that I can get to be a little bit exhausting at points. I really prefer the one-on-one interaction with people.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: But I would say a typical day in the life of non pandemic Mama Blunt would be … I don’t schedule anything before noon is a hard limit that I have. I do tend to sleep in fairly late, but that’s only because I have insomnia. And I really have been trying to set hard limits for myself of not going on my phone before I’ve spent two hours awake.
So I like to wake up, have tea, walk my dog, turn on my phone, check socials. And then in an ideal day, I really prefer longer sessions and play sessions. So I would love to then have lunch and then maybe go to a boutique hotel.
Really beautiful lighting is really important to me, so I like to play in places with beautiful lighting. My background is in photography. So anywhere where there’s good lighting, I’m like instantly turned on. And then a pretty masochist or service submissive would offer themselves to me. And then I would have my way with them, and I would be showered with attention, devotion, cash, gifts. And then I actually, in certain situations with submissives, I love to be bathed. I love bathing ritual service, and then they would go away, and I would have a beautiful snooze in a beautiful hotel.
Garlic: Man, I don’t know if you noticed this, but I just did a chef kiss, but for like a solid three minutes during that whole conversation.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Oh, good. Okay.
Garlic: Yeah. Follow up question. When you’re talking to me about how you don’t like to be on your phone for certain periods of time, if you wake up, are you the type to charge your phone outside of the bedroom, or inside of the bedroom?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’m the type who wants to charge it outside of the bedroom, but I use a white noise machine on it. So I haven’t been able to make the change, but I did buy a clock with an alarm.
My dom is screen time, and my phone shuts down all my apps at 10:00 PM. So if you see me online after that time, I’m breaking the rules of my dominant, and it doesn’t turn on until 11:00 AM.
Garlic: Correct me if I’m wrong, but there’s a snooze button on that option as well, that you can either choose to disobey deliberately.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I can. I can, and I do.
Garlic: We don’t have to go into that topic. Okay. Wow. Now we know how you’re so good at what you’re doing. Full disclosure. We’re going to have some silly questions in here as well, because sometimes we just need it. If you had a book, what would you title it?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I don’t have my phone on me, but I actually keep memoir titles, silly memoir titles, in my phone. If I had a book, what would I title it? It would probably be something about neuroplasticity, BDSM and trauma, but I haven’t come up with a name.
Garlic: Okay. So a little bit more, I guess, your experience as a pro-dom. So what do you look forward to when working with new submissives?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: What do I look forward to with working with new submissives or look for in?
Garlic: Ooh, I guess, so let’s say we are a new clients, and we’re about to start our first appointment. What do you look forward to, and what is often do you think, if there is an often, a hurdle that you have to go through with working with new people?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think what I look forward to with new clients is I feel very privileged, in that I can be like very selective with who I play with. And I think that’s something that’s come from being in the industry for long enough and having a certain amount of financial security, that I can say no to most of the things people throw my way. I also think that I have a high barrier to entry in my contact form. And I really only want to play it with people that I think that I have a good chance of being compatible with, without having to perform.
I’m not a performer, I’m not an actor. I’m really bad at faking chemistry. Most people know that’s where I got my name, Blunt is I was told I had the subtlety of a metaphoric sledgehammer. In non-pandemic times, I’m excited to just play with people’s bodies and minds. And I think with virtual trainings, I think the similarity that translates is really getting to play with people’s vulnerabilities in this contained space that’s negotiated and feels like sacred and special.
Garlic: That is very special. And for the record I love sledgehammers. Sledgehammers are my absolute favorite.
Okay. So I’m going to say a word, and I want you to give me the first three words that come to your mind. Are you prepared?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Mm-hmm (affirmative).
Garlic: Okay. Zoom.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Hell, pandemic, Zoomies, doggo.
Garlic: Zoomies. Okay. That’s amazing. So I guess a little bit more elaborating that, because you’ve discussed virtual and virtual training versus in-person. So would you say that’s one of the more difficult parts, or have you found a rewarding part of it as well?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I actually really like one-on-one Zooms. When I say Zoom, hell, I also do like academic stuff, where I’m on meetings that are all virtual. And I find it very hard to maintain attention in multiple directions, especially when I’m not in the room with multiple people.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I find the like virtual training sessions that I do to be enjoyable, because I also carve out that time to spend with one-on-one time attuning to another person, whereas I feel like meetings are just like hectic. No one has an agenda.
When I have like a session or a training session, I have a plan, and I’m in charge, so I know what’s going on. But I think there are so many other reasons for organizing and academic stuff that I’m on Zoom that just a fatigue … Fatigue would probably be a better word.
Garlic: Yeah, absolutely. It’s interesting. So many studies are coming out about it as well, the Zoom fatigue, since everyone’s moving on to there.
What’s your favorite foot? We all know you have gorgeous feet. Anyone who’s listening to this knows that you have gorgeous feet. Do you have a favorite foot? Spill to us.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’ve never thought about it before. I’m going to say my left, right now. I don’t know why.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I will tell you, this is a weird thing that you will know about me. My dad once told me he was grateful I didn’t have my mom’s feet, or I’d be out of a job.
Garlic: Oh my God. I just spit. Do you have a favorite toe?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: No. Whatever toe is bringing in the most money is my favorite for the day.
Garlic: Oh, that’s very fair. You should actually maybe take a poll on that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’ll consider it.
Garlic: Do you remember when you noticed or first engaged … I’m sorry, I just jumped right into this. I wanted to segue into, I guess, like mommy, daddy head-spaces.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Give it to me. I’m here for the rapid-fire.
Garlic: Yeah. Do you remember when you first noticed or first engage in that head-space? Like what was that? Were you in shock, like, “Oh my Lord. What’s happening? Or?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: No, I think it came really natural to me. I think just because my dominant role has always had a caretaker component to it. So it was just language that I was finding. It wasn’t like a new activity I’m thinking right now of a session with a submissive that I really cared about. And he would like really regress like very far in scene and into a very deep head-space, doing a lot of shadow work. And I would move through the role of like babysitter, mommy, dom, goddess, and just like this like cycle, like depending on where he was in his regression. And it just all felt very natural to me.
Garlic: Oh, that sounds so lovely. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a map of mommy, babysitter, goddess, in that swirl. I need some sort of animation from that. I don’t know if you know any kinky graphic designers.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’m sure you’ll draw it up for me.
Garlic: It’s very much a shame if that doesn’t come to fruition somewhere for it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think my powers of manifestation will make that come true.
Garlic: All right. And we’re back for our momentary break right there. Okay. This is one, I don’t know if you … You did express you were going to say pass, if you were not interested in doing this one. Have you ever had your orgasms controlled?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, I climbed from the bottom up. I climbed from the bottom of the barrel. Yeah. Orgasm control is hot. I trained at a classical BDSM training chateau. I trained as a submissive. I played around with orgasm control. There is very little that I do to a submissive that I haven’t had done to myself.
Garlic: That’s very interesting, because I think it goes back on a couple of interviews you talked about, with old guard training. And you mentioned it at the beginning of this too, starting from the bottom up. And so, until you started speaking about that, I was actually unfamiliar with that. So I would love to hear more about your experience with that. I know you’ve talked once or twice about testing toys out on yourself prior to using them.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Sure. I think I have mixed feelings about old guard, because I think it’s like very classical, in the sense that there’s not room for improvement in a lot of like old guard, leather sub communities. But I also think it’s really interesting way of being, and I think it can be a little bit gate keep-y as well. And I don’t want to feel that way about knowledge or community.
There are a lot of good things about the place I trained, and a lot of not so great things. But I think something that was really interesting to me about it was that it was a community, and that there was structure, and that there were rules.
And I was really looking for a place with structure and rules, so I knew how to interact with people. I think I mentioned in the beginning of the interview, I like one-on-one conversations the best. And I like BDSM parties, because everyone has a role, and everyone knows what to do. And there’s not a lot of small talk, because you’re like, “Oh cool, you’re wearing this fucking amazing fetish piece. Tell me something about it.”
Or you’re like, “You’re doing my boots. Where did you learn to boot black?”And I was just always a super-kinky, curious person. And when I found the Kink Chateau, they were like, “Cool. Our mistress-in-training program-
Garlic: That sounds adorable. Mistress-in-training program?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: MIT. I went to MIT.
Garlic: Okay. I’m snapping for you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Thank you.
Garlic: There’s my sorority girl.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And so, I did. I trained from the bottom up. I earned a pair of thigh-high black leather boots. And when I first started dom-ing, I would do it completely nude, in thigh-high leather boots, which was pretty hot. And painful
Garlic: Oh, I’m in pain. Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Dom-ing is really much better suited for me. I never felt like I was bottoming just for the sake of bottoming. I was definitely getting something out of it out. At the time, I was a super-horny 19-year-old, who was like, “I want to experience it all. I’m a hedonist. Give it all to me. I want to know it all.”
Garlic: That sounds. Amazing. It sounds like you really claimed it, even at 19 years old.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I was very into it.
Garlic: So when you say, “Old guard training”, does that imply that there is a new guard training now? Or is that just a play on words?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think there’s maybe like new guard, leather communities that are probably less about training, which might look like … I actually don’t know too much about this. So this is just me. I feel like a lot of kinky influencer people who you follow from the poly communities would probably be more considered new guard.
Garlic: Interesting. Interesting. Yeah. A little bit outside my realm too, but it’s just words, right? Just putting a new vocabulary to things that are happening.
We kind of talked about this in our conversation before, but am interested. I mean, this could just not even just be you as a person, but how does a submissive make you feel valuable, just in general? I guess this could be in sessions, could be in your personal dynamics.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I think consistency is probably what is key to me the most, consistency, communication, like setting me up for success. And I mean, that both … like setting me up for success in a way of like telling me what I need to know, to conduct a good scene. And also, I feel valued when people contribute to my success, stability and financial success as well.
Garlic: Yeah. Because there definitely has to be a level of needs that are met before you can enjoy fully any sort of XYZ, which I think a lot of pro-doms and a lot of workers talk about that as well. So it’s always good to reiterate and hear that.
What makes you comfortable with playing with a submissive?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That I think that they’re comfortable with themselves, and that I trust that they’ll say no, if they want to say no.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: My hot tip is my question on my contact form that is most informative to me is, “When was the last time that you cried?” And I use that as sort of a metric of how far I’d be willing to go in a first session with someone.
Garlic: Ooh, I don’t even think I’ve heard you say that before. And I’ve seen and read a lot of your contact. Hot tip, ladies and gentlemen.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. You heard it here first.
Garlic: You heard it hear. Okay. Okay. Last question, because I am a very good girl. I’m a very good baby, and I know you only gave me a time limit, and I stopped my stopwatch at that point in time. This is the most important question of at all. Excuse my words. Are you ready?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Give it to me.
Garlic: Do you sing in the shower?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I don’t.
Garlic: I knew it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I have people sing for me in the shower.
Garlic: Oh, is that a thing? Have you ever done a scene like that before? That sounds actually truly lovely.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s not true, but I did have a submissive who was a Shakespearian-trained actress and would recite to me all of the kinky sonnets while I bathed.
Garlic: I would ask you further information on this, but I actually prefer to have my own imagination and the viewer’s imagination, just to take off with that, with just that morsel of information.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Let me see if I can find the … Give me one moment.
Garlic: What was that topic that you said, “Shakespearean X, dah, dah, dah, dah.” It was just such bourgeoisie words that you put together, that I was just like, “Oh, it’s fancy.” And that’s all I took in.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Okay. I’m not sure where it’s from, but it’s … She recites it so much better than me, so she’s going to be embarrassed for me when I do this.
But, “I am your spaniel. And Demetrius, the more you beat me, the more I’ll fawn on you. Use me.”
“Use me, but as your spaniel. Spurn me, strike me, neglect me, lose me. Only give me leave, unworthy as I am, to follow you. And what worst place can I beg in your love, and yet a place of high respect with me, that to be used, as you use your dog?”
Garlic: Listen, I don’t want to speak for whatever person who did this for you, but that was amazing. I’m going to take a bath.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I mean, she performs it like a Shakespearean actress, so it was very good, and also performs it while slapped in the face over and over again on repeat. So everyone can think about that.
Garlic: Thank you very much.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s a hot quote. Yeah.
Garlic: You’re hearing a lot of good things. Well, I’m going to ask straight out, it’s not for our viewers, but for myself, permission to think about that as I’m showering in the shower tonight.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You may. You may.
Garlic: Thank you very much, Mistress. You are so kind. Well, I think that wraps up any questions that I have on my end. I really appreciate you taking a hot minute at the end of our own personal session, to kind of answer some questions and let me learn a little bit more about you, for people who don’t know..
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s truly a pleasure.
Garlic: Yeah. I really enjoyed it. Especially for people who don’t know, this is my first time speaking on one of these mistress lines, but I am a new client of hers, started in September, during the pandemic. So we’ve created a very interesting relationship that has been cultivated. And part of my questions were just trying to get to know her. I’m talking about you in third person right now, but just trying to get to know you a little bit more. So I appreciate any chances and seconds that we get to kind of make these memories and-
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. Thank you. This was very fun. I liked your little surprise questions. Do you sing in the shower?
Garlic: I absolutely do right now. I’m a little bit stuck on Hamilton. So it’s been singing. I admit I’ve been singing it during the session. So if you go back and notice, my voice might fluctuate to helpless.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Amazing. Okay. Well, that’s all for now, folks.
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