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I see very select submissives in NYC, in upstate New York, and for virtual domination. Will you make the cut?

After working in the industry for over 12 years, I have a rather full stable of submissives and a successful career in tech and academia. As such, I am no longer entertaining new sessions, aside from extended, immersive submissive training intensives and overnight sessions. I am only interested in exploring with people who think they have what it takes to add to my life through their continued submission and devotion.

I value quality over quantity when it comes to my submissives, and I deeply value my time. My tribute reflects this and it is only going up. It is commensurate with my 12+ years of experience as a professional dominatrix and BDSM educator and my background in psychology. As I’ve been told, my skills are invaluable and I don’t plan on selling myself short.

In order to book a session with me as a first time client, a minimum of 48 hours notice (though I prefer 1-3 weeks notice) and a 50% deposit are required. If you would like a speedy response, send your inquiry with a $100 gift card or a gift. I welcome virtual consultations to assess our fit, as well as virtual fetish or domination sessions.

In non-pandemic times, I love to travel. I am happy to visit your city should you provide first-class travel and accommodations of my choosing.

After reading my site in it’s entirety and familiarizing yourself with my protocol, please fill out the application below. Remember, I am not interested in your fantasy, but rather the space where our desires intersect. D/s relationships are about communication, attunement and symbiosis. I am in a privileged point in my career where I only take sessions and individuals that truly interest me. I have a particular fondness for sessions that incorporate high-protocol D/s training, feminization, crossdressing or gender play, foot fetish and worship. So ask yourself, do you want to go deeper?

**I do have a few sliding scale spots, and 2-hour minimum, for queer folks who are not cishet men. Just let me know if that’s something you need. (Please note that this offering is currently on hold until the pandemic is over. Feel free to get in touch for future planning or virtual submissive training.)

My harem of submissives is rather full, will you make the cut?


    Not at all.Fades within 24 hours.Moderate bruising.Heavy marking.

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