Zuri Love and I discussed being very kinky switches, how COVID affected D/s relationships, and our dreams of double teaming someone.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Okay, hello, hello. This is Mistress Blunt and I am here with the incredible Zuri Love.
Zuri Love: Hello.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: How are you doing today?
Zuri Love: I’m doing great, how are you beautiful?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I am so excited to chat with you. I would love if you could introduce yourself and what you do for folks!
Zuri Love: Okay, sure. I’m Zuri Love, I live in Oakland now, Oakland, California and I am a full service escort and porn person. I make content and I get taken out by your dad.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Love it, and your dad loves me. And like, from my understanding, like you’re kinky–you’re a kinky person.
Zuri Love: Yes, I’m a very kinky person. I am a switch, so I both will submit and also fuck you in the butt.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And yeah, okay, I would love to start with talking about it. Like, what does being a switch mean to you? And like, what do you enjoy about being a switch?
Zuri Love: To me, it means being versatile. Like I can do both and it’s not really something that’s extreme for me because personally, I’m submissive leaning but it depends on what the, you know, the person. When it comes to the other side, the dominant side, I’m like, yes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Give me more of this
Zuri Love: Give me more of this please. So the sub part is sweet, like not, well, I guess people call me innocent because I have an innocent looking face, you know, I smile.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: An angel.
Zuri Love: I’m cute. I’m an angel, but then you switch to the other side and I’m only 5’2” but apparently I have an intimidating presence.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You pack a punch. Yeah, I think I’ve seen a little bit of both sides of you.
Zuri Love: Yeah, definitely. So for me it, like, I think it’s a beautiful combination of both, for me personally.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, that makes sense. And I personally feel like switches make the best tops. And I also, I talk about this, but people, I feel like I don’t hear like a lot of like pro doms or doms talking about being a switch, I’m like, fuck yeah I can switch. Like I can take it just as much as I can give it. Do I do it often? No. Do I trust people to do it to me? Not often.
Zuri Love: It takes a really special, I think person, or that chemistry with someone to have someone top me, because I don’t let everyone top me. And I, even though I am submissive leaning, it really depends on the person, so word to everyone else looking at this.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And yeah, I guess that’s a question that I kind of have because I feel like when I think of more cishet sex with like a femme presenting person as the receptive person in that sex, I feel like there’s so many kinky elements to what’s happening in that dynamic that’s not talked about. So I guess my question for you is as someone who maybe leans a little bit more to the submissive side and offers professional sessions that sounds like, are both kind of like GFE and more vanilla and maybe offering some more kinky services as well. How do you kind of navigate that with people?
Zuri Love: I navigate that mostly by sending them to my kink page on my website, which has all that information on there, which I need to update a little bit once I get those pictures taken.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes.
Zuri Love: Yeah, I definitely navigate them there. And we can also talk about it if need be, in like a discreet place, you know with some encrypted messages, so yeah. Or over the phone, which is even better, but yeah, I direct them there and it has my submissive tendencies on one side and then my dominant tendencies on the other side. So, yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: There you go. What are your favorite things as, I’m gonna ask both, but to start with as a sub, what your dream session would look like?
Zuri Love: My dream session would look like someone taking me out to dinner and I’m plugged up, have a vibrator and have clamps and I’m wearing, not a super short dress but short enough to, you know, leave some imagination and do that with someone.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: A little bit of the tease and the denial and the flirtation over dinner is always so fun.
Zuri Love: Also car stuff.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Okay, so like a little bit public play/ exhibitionist.
Zuri Love: Yeah, but mostly at night and definitely in places where there’s, no one can be around for this, so like, no. I’m very adamant about that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, so like, there’s kind of the idea that someone might be there.
Zuri Love: Yeah, the idea, but for the most part, I’m a, “let’s not get arrested and also be gross about doing things in public places.” There’ll be children and humans about, and they don’t, they’re not giving you that consent to see me. So, yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Right, I think that’s an important part with exhibitionism in public play. When I do, I offer some light public play with people, but it’s always very subtle. Like, I feel like there’s so much flirtation that can be pulled apart into this exhibitionist, gentle humiliation type of way of being seen and it feeling like other people are kind of in on the, like in on it when they don’t necessarily even have any idea, which is usually good.
Zuri Love: Yes, which is good, ’cause it’s like, mind your business. I like the subtlety. Perfect example of subtle for me like as a sub is like, if say, my dominant is keeping their hand in the back of my neck as we’re walking and I have a collar on and that’s something where I’m like, I feel, I feel special and also it’s in public, but no one, you know, is really, they could pick up on it or they don’t.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Right, it’s not like, yeah. I think that’s an important part of it too. And also so fun. It’s like the things that keep you in that headspace and the subtle ways that you can bring play into a D/s relationship are really fun. And like, there can be like code words or ways of interacting or just knowing.
Zuri Love: Exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: We’re gonna go get a milkshake before daddy beats the shit out of you when we get home. And just knowing that when you go out is very fun.
Zuri Love: It is really fun, I’ll miss that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I was gonna then ask, what about as a dom? Like what are you? You mentioned that you’re looking forward to doing a photo shoot with a little bit of a strap on as a more dominant Zuri. And I would love to hear you talk about who that person is, who that persona is, that you wanna step into and what would you be really excited to do?
Zuri Love: Well, for that, I’m really excited to showcase more of me actually having that dominant side. ‘Cause most people see me as a soft submissive and I am soft but at the same time, I’m like, I can be soft but I also tie you down, blindfold you, cover you in oil and probably rub myself all over you until you cum.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes, the sensual domination, I feel like. There’s so much there that can happen just like, between two bodies.
Zuri Love: Exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And playing with power dynamics in that way.
Zuri Love: Exactly, and I like to talk which is so essential but also very dirty way to like my subbies, because, one, it’s hot and two, I love knowing that I have that power over them but they have the power because they’re the ones who were submitting themselves to me, so.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Right, yeah, and like the things that you’re saying are the things that are getting them going. It’s something that I think about a lot. I’ve had subs who are like, I don’t wanna top from the bottom. So I don’t wanna tell you what I want, do whatever you want. I’m like, A, no. B, you know what you want, you just don’t wanna tell me. And I don’t like to work, so fucking give it to me.
Zuri Love: Right, I’m not a mind reader.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Right.
Zuri Love: Like you have to tell me something.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And it’s like a gift, it’s like as a sadist and as a top, I like to take the things that someone is interested in and like spin a fucking web, like an erotic web that like consumes them for the time of our session and leaves them transformed, is the ideal. And without that, I’m like what the fuck do you want me to spin this fantasy out of?
Zuri Love: Right, I can’t spin it out of nothing. Like you have to, and I wanna hear the fantasies. I wanna hear what they want, because that’s so beautiful to hear and to give that to someone and to see the pleasure on their face and feel the pleasure on their body is just, it gives me the most immense feeling of kinky joy.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah. There’s so much you can do with no toys too. I feel like when people think about BDSM, they think of like black leather, whips, hot. Those are two of my favorite things. And like, but all of the implements that accompany a dominatrix’s dungeon when you’re like going into the dungeon for a BDSM session. But, what I think is so not talked about enough and underappreciated is how much you can do with the psyche. And that’s why I love the like, fem dom, GFE dynamic of, I’m gonna rub my body all over till you cum. Like, there might be rope, there might not but you’re gonna stay right where I tell you to. And like, you’re not gonna cum until I tell you to, like, they’re just.
Zuri Love: Exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You don’t need anything besides your voice and your body. And like, I’m also a very vocal top. And it’s so fun figuring out what that one key phrase is that they’re like, oh, stop or I’m gonna cum. Like, please stop, like it’s too much, it’s too good.
Zuri Love: I love that. I found that out with one of my, actually, with one of my exes, it wasn’t necessarily like, I’m not gonna say what I said, ‘cause that’s our business. I don’t wanna be, like he can suck it but I’m not gonna be a bitch about this. Anyways, he’s not gonna see this anyway, ’cause he doesn’t follow me, as far as I know. If you’re seeing this and you watch this, now you know, anyway. Yeah, that man was hard whenever I was in the room with him, like not doing anything, like, or even just getting into his car, I looked over, immediately.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Hello.
Zuri Love: Hello, hi. So, and he was a switch too, so I definitely dominated him as well. And I think his trigger was definitely me talking to him while I-
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, yeah, hot. So, I love to feel the effect that I have over someone is one of my favorite things about kink, and yeah, I had a submissive who, fuck it, I’ll say what his trigger word was, but he had a hard time getting it up with other women, which oftentimes I think, it can be like a myriad of different reasons and like, no shame, no anything. But I think it was because he was having vanilla sex, like, yeah, and I was like, no wonder, but like one of the things that we said, we were saying is like, we would be fucking and just like every three seconds, he was like about to cum and would have to stop. And he didn’t have permission to cum. So he had to say, like every three seconds, it was punctuated by like, “Please stop or I’ll cum, please stop or I’ll cum, please stop or I’ll cum”, over and over again. And I would be like, “Oh, like, you had trouble getting it up before and now you’re a premature ejaculator, aren’t you?” And he would just have to stop everything and cool off and think about football. And it was just like the power of us playing with that and like pointing it out in our play was so erotic and talking about all the things he would do for me but wouldn’t do for other people, it was very sexy.
Zuri Love: That is the sexiest thing I have ever heard in a while, like in a good while. That is so fucking hot, I love that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And I think it’s, I think what’s so fun about what we do when being able to be with someone in person, is like, you get to, or even just like in these online experiences, one-on-one, is you get to tailor it to someone’s specific fantasies. ‘Cause it’s fun to watch. It’s fun to watch porn, but I think it’s more fun to figure out what it is for you that really gets you going. And maybe you can find it in a clip. Like I know when I was watching porn I would find like three seconds of someone saying something and I’m like, yes. Now let me loop that in a circle and never listen to anything else.
Zuri Love: I love that, oh my God, yes. And, when it comes to vocal things, it’s very pleasing to my ears. So I definitely have things where, I listen to certain clips of people speaking specific things over and over again. For a perfect example, the man that I like and want to call my boyfriend, I have a clip of him saying something specific where I’m like, well this is basically like a jerk off instruction.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I know, even if there’s no instruction for jerking off, you’re like, it’s doing that for me.
Zuri Love: Yeah, and one of them is, basically he’s counting down.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Oh, okay it is, yeah cool.
Zuri Love: Yeah for me to cum, and like, so nice.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That’s so hot, that’s like one of the hottest things that I’ve heard. I love a jerk off instructional and like, I’ve been having a lot of fun in the pandemic, having online virtual kinky sessions with people and Skype shows and just like. I’ve done a few boot shows and a few jerk off instructionals and like even just talking with people, but just like. That on-on-one connection is something that I really really miss and like being in quarantine.
Zuri Love: Yeah, like the same, ’cause I was supposed to see one of my subs actually, but some things happened with his health so we had to postpone and then COVID hit. Like, and then I had to postpone again because COVID scare.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Right.
Zuri Love: Then actual COVID, yeah, luckily he’s fine.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It’s so hard, I was, yeah. I was supposed to see one of my favorite subs. He was flying me out to visit him and we just kept postponing it because COVID, he left like a month before COVID hit. And we were supposed to see each other the next month in Hawaii. And it just kept getting postponed and we’re like, oh, maybe in three months. Oh, maybe in four months. And then we’re like, I’m like, I don’t know when I’m gonna see you again.
Zuri Love: Fuck.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: We’re both finally vaccinated and we’ll maybe, hopefully be in the same country soon. So I’m very excited for that. But it’s like, oh, like a year of keeping, of like keeping it up–speak of keeping it up. Like keeping up those dynamics when you can’t see people. Or like when there are any of these like tech barriers or frustrations but.
Zuri Love: It’s wild, like it’s extremely wild just how much COVID has like just completely obliterated people being able to interact safely. And it’s gonna be like this for a while. Even though everyone’s getting vaccinated, we’re not out of the woods yet because we still have to have booster shots. But hopefully by the time fall hits because otherwise it’s gonna get out of control again. And I don’t wanna have to start all over and no one else does either.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: No, it’s been too long, the like, the caution fatigue is just exhausting. And like, I need everyone to do their fucking part because I need to go to orgies and spit in my friend’s mouths.
Zuri Love: Exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: So that’s my PSA.
Zuri Love: Yeah, I need to be able to kiss all the femmes and all the women that I’ve been flirting with and like really just wanna make out with and I’m gay, okay. Like I’m queer as hell. Like I want to make out.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I know, this has been Mistress Blunt and Zuri Love with a PSA for your health. Please take precautions, wear your mask, get your vaccine so we can make out with women.
Zuri Love: Exactly, like please. This has been a PSA, thanks for coming to our TED Talk.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Honestly, I think it’s persuasive public health information.
Zuri Love: I agree, wear your fucking masks. Wash your hands whenever you leave and come back to the house. Use the hand sanitizer and stop being up on people’s asses in the grocery store and on the street and at the airport, please.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Truly, let’s just get it done and go back to.
Zuri Love: The new normal.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: The new normal, yeah, there we go.
Zuri Love: The new normal because I’ve already been spacing myself apart from people my entire life, because I don’t like people being near me.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Honestly, same. I feel like I am very much an introvert, which often surprises people when they hear that because I have a very dominant public persona but I’m like, it takes so much energy to occupy that space in public rather than just like in one-on-one intimate experiences that I’m just. I also feel like I’m very perceptive in social situations, which makes social situations awful.
Zuri Love: Yes, don’t worry, I’m very perceptive. And like I’m the watcher, like I pick up on things. And I’m like, oh no, this is, I don’t wanna feel this. This is what I don’t want.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I don’t wanna know that.
Zuri Love: This is why I don’t interact with people in public because I’m feeling the trash energy and I don’t like it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Well in some post COVID ish, whatever language you wanna call that, new future. What are you Zuri, most looking forward to? Where do you wanna travel to? What kind of sessions do you want? If someone were to whisk you off and take you somewhere, what would the most glorious iteration of that look like? After like this year and a half of being not able to do that.
Zuri Love: Oh God, I’m gonna manifest the fuck out of this now as I tell you this.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes, git it to me, ready. I’m gonna rub my titties for good luck. Let’s manifest this.
Zuri Love: Titties.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, the titties.
Zuri Love: Let me think, okay. I want to be flown out first class, business class, to either Hawaii, I’ve missed Hawaii and just, or.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: That was good.
Zuri Love: Or I’m trying to think, it’s in the US, like, well technically, you know. This is really hard, ’cause I have a lot of places I wanna go. Fuck. But if I could choose, like my favorite favorite, that’s like international. I’d love to go to the, to like Jamaica or the Caribbean and go swimming.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Beautiful.
Zuri Love: Beyond the beach and the sand and some pretty bikini, showing off my hot bod.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes, you do look great in a bikini, can confirm. The titties, damn.
Zuri Love: When we both have huge, you know, zongas.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes, our marketing, here is our marketing.
Zuri Love: You can’t see mine but you can tell that they’re there.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: They are there.
Zuri Love: When you have Gs.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes.
Zuri Love: Don’t wear bras.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, somewhere tropical would be so nice. I know, before the pandemic, I went to Martinique, one of the islands and it was so beautiful and just like, I love the mix of beach and rainforest, right, like right side by side. And it was just so, so, so, so relaxing. And I got a massage and like this really beautiful tree house where there are little fish nibbling your toes. And it was like, I want to talk to my friends again. I want them to nibble my toes.
Zuri Love: Yes, now I remember the place that I really really wanna go, Bali. Yes.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah.
Zuri Love: Manifest it, you’ve heard it here. I’m gonna light a candle after this, shit.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’ve never been to Bali, I would love to go to Bali or on my list as well as Iceland. Two very different spaces.
Zuri Love: Same, I wanna go to Iceland so bad. Yeah. That’s on my list too. And Vienna, ’cause, you know, Austria.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Two candles, three candles. And what, okay so, you were talking about doing this photo shoot with a strap to show a little bit more of like top energy Zuri. What do you like about fucking men in the ass, is like my first question followed up by like what, like do you use an honorific when you top, like, tell me a little, I wanna hear a little bit more about you as a top.
Zuri Love: For when I talk, in terms of like, with fucking men in the butt, what I like most, I think I like most is like the sounds they make, honestly, like when I first like slide it in and just the the way their back looks when they’re arched.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And you’re like pulling them into you.
Zuri Love: Yeah and you’re pulling them in to you with like the way that like, I love butts. So I love the way that their butts move. Like the way they feel in my hands, like hips, grasping onto that. I love it when they look back at me and are like, “Oh my God, like I cannot believe like this five foot two, like sweet looking Black femme is fucking the shit out of my ass with this big ass dildo. Like, holy shit.”
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love when they can take a little bit more than they think they can. And they’re like, “Oh my God, oh my God.” And it’s just like the best experience in their sex life. And it’s just like, ’cause everyone should fucking explore anal, it’s great.
Zuri Love: Exactly.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And you’re missing out if you don’t do it.
Zuri Love: Like I’ve never seen a man cum so hard as from anal. Like, ’cause at one point I was fucking this man on his back and was jerking him off and like he cum so fucking hard.
Like he spurted like all over the place and all over him and I’m just staring down at him like.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: You’re like yes I did that.
Zuri Love: Did that feel good?
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Did you like that?
Zuri Love: Yeah, ’cause your eyes are rolling at the back of your head.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: It looks like you liked it. There there.
Zuri Love: Pat pat, good job.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I love that, well, I would, I for one would love to double team someone with you. I think it sounds like.
Zuri Love: Please.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: A lot of fun.
Zuri Love: Yes, please let’s do it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Well, we can light a fourth candle for that one.
Zuri Love: Yeah, definitely fourth candle. Yes, I want that to happen.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I have had, before the pandemic, I had a really fun strap on orgy with like a bunch of my domme friends, which was super fun.
Zuri Love: Yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And just like turning someone into a complete slut like objectification. Like you are just a whole for me, it was so fun. And then I also had a goodbye party for my footstool who moved away, the one who I was going to meet up with and there were 14 dommes there.
Zuri Love: Holy shit.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: And he hadn’t met more than three of us before. And I had him spend two minutes kissing each domme’s foot. And then after the first circle, he had to remember everyone’s name throughout the whole thing. And then by the end of it, it was a four hour scene. By the end of it, he had to do it with his eyes, while blindfolded just by figuring out whose foot it was. And he did it with a hundred percent accuracy, I kid you not, he is one of my favorites. I have never been so impressed with someone’s fetish and like his ability to like, it was like tasting notes of our feet, yeah.
Zuri Love: That’s amazing.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I was like, you are dedicated to the fetish.
Zuri Love: That’s fucking awesome, he was dedicated, wow. Ready for, ready for people like that.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I know, I was like, you love feet so much. It’s so beautiful. Like, I wish I loved anything as much you love feet.
Zuri Love: Damn, oh my, fuck, that is intense.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah.
Zuri Love: I love that for you.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Thank you. It was really, really fun. And I was just like, I don’t even know if I know everyone’s name here, I’m bad with names.
Zuri Love: I can be bad with names sometimes, yeah. Like the most part my memory is like, yes it’s okay. And then sometimes I’m like, oh God, I forgot their name. Oh God what do I do? I feel bad, no, but it’s okay, you deal with it.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Just go with slut.
Zuri Love: Exactly, yeah.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Well, wonderful. I don’t have any more questions right now other than, just like, when will we be able to do a group scene? ‘Cause that sounds so fun. But was there anything else you wanted to add about what you’re looking forward to or where people can find you online?
Zuri Love: Well, I’m looking forward to the world getting vaccinated and things going back to what we now need to call the new normal. I’m also excited to be traveling more, since I’m fully vaccinated. So yeah, if anybody wants to find me or fly me out, come see me in the SF Bay Area. You can find me at zurilove.com. My Twitter name is ZuriLove. That’s spelled Zuri Love Z U R I L O V E.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Awesome.
Zuri Love: You can also find me on OnlyFans.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yes, Zuri Love as well?
Zuri Love: Yeah, oh actually, it’s actually www. onlyfans.com/zuri.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Nice and if you’d like to find me, I’m at mistressblunt on Instagram and Twitter until I maybe get deleted. I am on TikToK too, but I’m on my fourth account. So I don’t know the username. And you can find me at mistressblunt.com or onlyfans.com/mistressblunt, where I enjoy training submissives up to my impeccable standards.
Zuri Love: Yes, she’s amazing. Book Mistress Blunt please.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Book us both.
Zuri Love: Yes, book us both. I am like the GFE who you can take out to dinner, but also smoke weed and play video games with at a fancy hotel.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Literally, what could be better? That sounds like a dream date.
Zuri Love: Oh yes, I want my cabin date in the woods with video games, weed, my switch.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Your switch and a switch.
Zuri Love: Yeah, my switch and a switch. Exactly, you know.
Mistress Danielle Blunt: Yeah, well, okay, well I can’t wait to hang out with you, smoke another blunt with you, dance with you and maybe a tag team some lucky fucker.
Zuri Love: Yes, I think that’s gonna be amazing. Lighting a candle,
Mistress Danielle Blunt: I’ll go light my candle too. Okay, wonderful. Well, thank you so much for tuning in.
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