An Orgasm Control Tale: There and Back Again by the Quantified Sub

Let’s talk about data, baby!  Riddle me this: In a world of metrics, where we can measure the number of air particles per square unit of air, have you ever been curious if we can measure how horny you really are? Can orgasm control be optimized through the study of a submissive’s responses? What the …

BDSM & Therapy: How to Find a Kink Friendly Therapist

I like to say that BDSM can be therapeutic, but it isn’t therapy. I encourage everyone who is seeing me regularly to find community in the BDSM scene as well as a kink positive therapist. Having a kink aware therapist can be super helpful in processing and integrating what comes up during an intense BDSM …

Female-Led Relationship (FLR): An Interview with a Dominant Wife

One of my submissives is in a female-led relationship (FLR). He is married to his Domme and she sends him to me once a month to whip him into shape. Naturally, I thought it would be fun to interview both him and his dominant wife. You can read part one, where I interview Pretty in Pink, the submissive …

Female-Led Relationship (FLR): An Interview with a Submissive Husband

One of my submissives is in a female-led relationship (FLR). He is married to his Domme and she sends him to me once a month to whip him into shape. Naturally, I thought it would be fun to interview both him and his dominant wife. In part one, you’ll meet Pretty in Pink, the submissive …